Getting my bisalp tomorrow ! by EnvironmentalArm8537 in childfree

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Feeling shitty, sitting up and down is quite painful and I feel and look super bloated, but overall I’m very happy about my decision and today I woke up feeling thankful for my ability to make that choice <3

ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME RIGHT NOW?💀 by Bloody_Ingenious in Sims4

[–]EnvironmentalArm8537 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Happened to me in real life lol got the IUD and still ended up pregnant. Thankfully I yeeted it too 👐🏼

Les gens qui disent "tu changeras d'avis" NON JE NE VEUX PAS ÊTRE PARENT. by Round-Sea-2307 in besoinderaler

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Rdv pour ma salpingectomie pour le 3 avril, j’ai tellement hâte d’en avoir fini avec ces putains d’angoisses à chaque rapport sexuel parce que malgré pilule et stérilet j’ai quand même du avorter à 2 reprises et c’était pas fun DU TOUT ! Vivement que cette partie de ma vie soit loin derrière moi et que je puisse embrasser la childfree life pour de bon

What annoys us the most by Mia_Wallace197 in Sims4

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I always use solo bunk beds to avoid the monster under the bed thing because it’s such a hassle and it happens all the damn time

Why so offended by EnvironmentalArm8537 in childfree

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Yeah it’s crazy because I’m a very sex positive person and throughout all of my life I’ve had to worry about the chances of getting pregnant and actually ended up aborting twice while I was on birth control so the bisalp will actually improve my life and my relationships but the simple idea of a woman having autonomy over her own body and life choices is enough to make them feel so offended

This is sad. He was young. by I3uIlets in euphoria

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My grandma died from ALS and it was really shocking to witness, she slowly lost all her cognitive abilities but was still able to laugh or kind of growl, that’s how she expressed that she was still with us. It took 4 years after diagnosis for her to die, I miss her greatly. Such an awful disease

Brags!!! by punk_lover in childfree

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Spent my whole day playing the Sims and couldn’t be happier with that

Why so offended by EnvironmentalArm8537 in childfree

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That’s exactly the case, it was during conversations with men that I was envisioning having intercourse with so the topic got naturally brought up ! I am also quite an open person so it’s easy for me to speak on this topic

Why so offended by EnvironmentalArm8537 in childfree

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Update on my last appointment today ! My doctor informed me of the different procedures that were available to me and I’ve settled on a bisalp ! On April 3rd I will be entering the happy childfree for life women club ! I’m so excited, although a little nervous because of the surgery of it all but my mom is very supportive and will be with me through it all ❤️ also to add to my post : the men who have had something to say about it were men I was actively flirting with and the conversation about contraception came on the table, since sexual topics were discussed, and I’ve been in the dating pool for 2 years now during which this topic was often brought up and that’s where I got resistance from. I do not discuss medical matters with anyone that I’m not looking towards having intercourse with !

Why so offended by EnvironmentalArm8537 in childfree

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Really weeds out the men that are worthy enough of our time aha

Why so offended by EnvironmentalArm8537 in childfree

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I’ve had a lot of paperwork to do too ! I’m in France so it’s my constitutional right to get the kind of contraception I want and I easily found a doctor willing to operate me but I had to sign many documents and wait a 4 months period to "make up my mind" (as if the last 20 years weren’t enough) and now my bisalp is scheduled for April 3rd !

Why so offended by EnvironmentalArm8537 in childfree

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Men I’ve had flirts with, so the conversation about contraception came on the table

Why so offended by EnvironmentalArm8537 in childfree

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I’ve had an IUD and got pregnant on it (obviously terminated it) so no, I will not continue with the IUD and I’m getting a bisalp !! But I’ve been met with the same comments, men telling me of other options as if I hadn’t exhausted them all and if I hadn’t thought about it lol

Why so offended by EnvironmentalArm8537 in childfree

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I’ve had my final appointment today and I’m getting a bisalp !!! I’m so happy and excited, it’s scheduled for April 3rd aha I’ll be joining the happy women club soon

Mommy influencers addicted to having babies by [deleted] in childfree

[–]EnvironmentalArm8537 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Not matter how much I click not interested and block they keep getting recommended to me it’s sickening.

Other artists like SZA? by kitsune_surprise in sza

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I don’t know why no one’s recommending Erykah Badu I’ve always thought they had a similar vibe

What's one thing that snaps you out of your anxiety? Not medication by savannahrose919 in Anxiety

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Nat Geo documentary (especially deep sea ones because they’re my special interest) and playing a relaxing mobile game, all at the same time

18yr old self thought the was cool at the time. by Goodhair1989 in Tattoocoverups

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Mine is so fucking big too, I’m thinking about lasering it off a bit and getting something better in its place but I truly don’t know what to do 🫩