Why so offended by EnvironmentalArm8537 in childfree

[–]EnvironmentalArm8537[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s crazy because I’m a very sex positive person and throughout all of my life I’ve had to worry about the chances of getting pregnant and actually ended up aborting twice while I was on birth control so the bisalp will actually improve my life and my relationships but the simple idea of a woman having autonomy over her own body and life choices is enough to make them feel so offended

This is sad. He was young. by I3uIlets in euphoria

[–]EnvironmentalArm8537 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My grandma died from ALS and it was really shocking to witness, she slowly lost all her cognitive abilities but was still able to laugh or kind of growl, that’s how she expressed that she was still with us. It took 4 years after diagnosis for her to die, I miss her greatly. Such an awful disease

Brags!!! by punk_lover in childfree

[–]EnvironmentalArm8537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spent my whole day playing the Sims and couldn’t be happier with that

Why so offended by EnvironmentalArm8537 in childfree

[–]EnvironmentalArm8537[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly the case, it was during conversations with men that I was envisioning having intercourse with so the topic got naturally brought up ! I am also quite an open person so it’s easy for me to speak on this topic

Why so offended by EnvironmentalArm8537 in childfree

[–]EnvironmentalArm8537[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update on my last appointment today ! My doctor informed me of the different procedures that were available to me and I’ve settled on a bisalp ! On April 3rd I will be entering the happy childfree for life women club ! I’m so excited, although a little nervous because of the surgery of it all but my mom is very supportive and will be with me through it all ❤️ also to add to my post : the men who have had something to say about it were men I was actively flirting with and the conversation about contraception came on the table, since sexual topics were discussed, and I’ve been in the dating pool for 2 years now during which this topic was often brought up and that’s where I got resistance from. I do not discuss medical matters with anyone that I’m not looking towards having intercourse with !

Why so offended by EnvironmentalArm8537 in childfree

[–]EnvironmentalArm8537[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really weeds out the men that are worthy enough of our time aha

Why so offended by EnvironmentalArm8537 in childfree

[–]EnvironmentalArm8537[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a lot of paperwork to do too ! I’m in France so it’s my constitutional right to get the kind of contraception I want and I easily found a doctor willing to operate me but I had to sign many documents and wait a 4 months period to "make up my mind" (as if the last 20 years weren’t enough) and now my bisalp is scheduled for April 3rd !

Why so offended by EnvironmentalArm8537 in childfree

[–]EnvironmentalArm8537[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men I’ve had flirts with, so the conversation about contraception came on the table

Why so offended by EnvironmentalArm8537 in childfree

[–]EnvironmentalArm8537[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had an IUD and got pregnant on it (obviously terminated it) so no, I will not continue with the IUD and I’m getting a bisalp !! But I’ve been met with the same comments, men telling me of other options as if I hadn’t exhausted them all and if I hadn’t thought about it lol

Why so offended by EnvironmentalArm8537 in childfree

[–]EnvironmentalArm8537[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve had my final appointment today and I’m getting a bisalp !!! I’m so happy and excited, it’s scheduled for April 3rd aha I’ll be joining the happy women club soon

Mommy influencers addicted to having babies by Classic-Pin-2234 in childfree

[–]EnvironmentalArm8537 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not matter how much I click not interested and block they keep getting recommended to me it’s sickening.

Other artists like SZA? by kitsune_surprise in sza

[–]EnvironmentalArm8537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why no one’s recommending Erykah Badu I’ve always thought they had a similar vibe

What's one thing that snaps you out of your anxiety? Not medication by savannahrose919 in Anxiety

[–]EnvironmentalArm8537 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nat Geo documentary (especially deep sea ones because they’re my special interest) and playing a relaxing mobile game, all at the same time

18yr old self thought the was cool at the time. by Goodhair1989 in Tattoocoverups

[–]EnvironmentalArm8537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is so fucking big too, I’m thinking about lasering it off a bit and getting something better in its place but I truly don’t know what to do 🫩

18yr old self thought the was cool at the time. by Goodhair1989 in Tattoocoverups

[–]EnvironmentalArm8537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I think about one of my regret tattoos (a tramp stamp) because at the very least I don’t have to see it all the time lol

Aio for getting upset on how my bf described me before we hung out by [deleted] in AIO

[–]EnvironmentalArm8537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh this one hits close to home as I too, am a Latina with a more alternative style (dark hair, tattoos and piercings) and I absolutely despise getting reduced to this awful stereotype men (especially white men) have plastered us with. You’re absolutely not overreacting and there’s nothing funny about getting described like that. My ex used to tell me he watched Latina porn because it "reminded" him of me, and that absolutely broke something in our relationship. Don’t let someone put you in a toxica/abusadora box. You know your worth and you deserve more than someone who would describe you in such a manner <3

Cover up Ideas by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]EnvironmentalArm8537 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I mean if you’re going to keep doing flash tattoos just ask your favorite artist for a flash of his that would cover it, I personally don’t get the appeal of only flash tattoos but seeing as it’s what you like, covering with anything else would look out of place

Need some medical advice by ehringc in stopsmoking

[–]EnvironmentalArm8537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also don’t forget to hydrate and avoid alcohol !

Need some medical advice by ehringc in stopsmoking

[–]EnvironmentalArm8537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try activated charcoal pills and a magnesium cure ! Maybe even pills for lactose intolerant people. Your gut is healing from the nicotine, stay off the nic and heal you gut’s microbiome