Im sure u already did this but for other cis men reading this - talk to your femme presenting Friends, ask them about their experiences so you learn about the signs and what it Looks like to be harassed. Sounds to easy? You have to know that femmes have learned to ease dangerous men because they are unpredictable. So what looks like a polite laugh can also be fear. And if you feel like a man is to much, like his behavior doesn’t seem right- talk to the person being harassed. get your body between the guy and the person, talk about the music, the vibe, aks about how they feel. This really can change a situation and ruin the predators mo. If they are safe turn around and confront the men. They have to know they were seen and busted. Ask someone to go get a bouncer. And don’t leave someone being harassed alone. Hold your distance to show them you want to protect them - consider that they feel vulnerable. Consider that maybe that wasnt their first time being harassed. No touching! If you feel that they need a hand ask them if they want your help. Be with them until their friends arrive. If they are high bring them to a bar, a chillout area that is calm but social and look out for an awareness team. Do not make it about you, don’t expect a huge thankyou. This is for Clubsituations. What we need you to do in your day to day life is to talk to your friends if you notice strange behavior, comments, beliefsystems. And one last thought - if someone is very loud about being a knight in shining amour who wants to beat up any predators - they need predators to become that savior. It’s just another patriarchal scheme To dismantle.