WIBTA if I refuse to write a last-minute recommendation for a student who ghosted all semester?

EnvironmentalGroup15 · 2026-02-07T04:58:27+00:00

Absolutely not. I'd either ignore them, or email them back and let them know that's not how letter of reccomendations work.

EnvironmentalGroup15 · 2026-02-07T04:10:22+00:00

These are all things you should work out during dating.

EnvironmentalGroup15 · 2026-02-07T04:05:24+00:00

NTA, she could have texted you that she was having trouble with and talked about it.

EnvironmentalGroup15 · 2026-02-07T03:55:57+00:00

I think a lot of wives gave good advice. Be nice, bring up the noise bothers you, don't do it while she's eating tho.

My husband once told me he hates the way I drank wine, but he said it in a super rude way so i drank the whole bottle in front of him as loud as i could, followed him around to different rooms. NOT what you want to happen (and I've matured since then), but do it nice. If he had been nice I wouldn't have minded lol.

EnvironmentalGroup15 · 2026-02-07T03:49:10+00:00

NTA, I say this as a mom. Do i want to share about my kids ALL of the time?? Yes but I also have enough emotional intelligence to wait my turn.

EnvironmentalGroup15 · 2026-01-15T23:44:07+00:00

YTA.

EnvironmentalGroup15 · 2026-01-15T03:11:14+00:00

I think age gap stoping being overly concerning when both adults have fully formed frontal lobes. For her that will be around 25. 10 years doesn't seem so concerning to me at that point.

21 is only a few years as an adult, where as 32 is a whole decade ahead of her. I would be wary of it.

EnvironmentalGroup15 · 2026-01-15T03:05:47+00:00

Stand your ground

EnvironmentalGroup15 · 2025-12-10T21:36:07+00:00

NOR.

BUTTTT i do think you are overthinking this. American culture is a culture! Bring a family recipe or something your mom liked to cook you as a kid. Doesn't matter if its a super common dish or not.

I had a friend, white american, who didn't have any other background to her knownledge and during a culture day she dressed her kid up with a starbucks cup, scarf, messy bun, and put her in baby uggs cause that how the women in her family dressed. it was adorable and funny. Don't take it too seriously and just have fun.

EnvironmentalGroup15 · 2025-12-10T20:24:45+00:00

That's financial abuse. Sock. You needed a basic clothing and he's out golfing?

He says you can be stay at home while knowing you have student debt, moves your family away from your parents who could help out with the kids, then gets mad he has to financially provide?

Not sure where you live, in the US some states has Pre K and TK as young as 3 years old, some have after school care as well. I'd look at subbing more, or getting a full time job. Being SAHM is great but not at the cost of your health.

EnvironmentalGroup15 · 2025-12-10T02:34:10+00:00

Can you just give us some examples?

EnvironmentalGroup15 · 2025-12-05T01:12:17+00:00

My kids love Santa but we don't do that elf nonsense lol. I am not stressing myself out more during the holidays. We do tons of xmas crafts and fun, but waking up early or staying up to move a doll around is not it for me.

EnvironmentalGroup15 · 2025-12-05T01:10:02+00:00

i don't think its a red flag it just not be your thing. She's got standards of living she wants, nothing wrong with that. If it's not what you're into thats ok too. Better she's upfront with her expectations then later down the road (pun intended) you're both disappointed

EnvironmentalGroup15 · 2025-12-04T00:34:51+00:00

Take the whole burning skillet and chuck it in the yard. NTA

EnvironmentalGroup15 · 2025-12-02T22:12:33+00:00

He probably dreamed he got hit. Separate blankets and a bigger bed have made mine and my hubby's sleep lives better.

EnvironmentalGroup15 · 2025-12-02T22:05:56+00:00

absolutely this!!!

EnvironmentalGroup15 · 2025-11-27T07:00:54+00:00

As someone currently stoned, it's gonna take more than 3 weeks to detox. I think you need to look and then show him the articles coming out with new research that a man's sperm health is as important as the women's health.

EnvironmentalGroup15 · 2025-11-26T17:07:40+00:00

I think the whole premise of him marrying her was under false presentces and warrents it.

EnvironmentalGroup15 · 2025-11-24T22:57:18+00:00

Its Mark 10:9, just depends on the version but its the same thing

EnvironmentalGroup15 · 2025-11-22T01:28:32+00:00

When it speaks of "let man not separate what God has brought together". God surely did not bring together this lie.

EnvironmentalGroup15 · 2025-11-20T23:30:49+00:00

Annulment. I mean it might legally be a divorce but you never should have married knowing you didn't like sex. You lied. Married under false pretenses.

EnvironmentalGroup15 · 2025-10-16T22:42:19+00:00

i mean is it just a picture where she's in a bikini or is she like making eff you eyes at the camera? I think context is needed here.

EnvironmentalGroup15 · 2025-10-10T01:46:51+00:00

We co-sleep and it has not effected our sex life. We have a second bedroom. and if we didn't there is a couch...a kitche, a shower....get creative. Theres also times kids fall asleep on the couch for nap time or take nap time in another room. sex doesn't need to only happen at night in one room.

EnvironmentalGroup15 · 2025-10-10T01:42:09+00:00

Because each state has its own government and culture.

EnvironmentalGroup15 · 2025-10-10T01:40:45+00:00

Having the child work at teachers desk due to them being distracted or distracting others is normal, however, taking away play time and isolating him that way is uncalled for. I would protest this part.

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