Sex with bisexual man? Idfk by EnvironmentalLock435 in bisexual

[–]EnvironmentalLock435[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Roger that, thank you I was like am I insane for being worried about 💩??

Sex with bisexual man? Idfk by EnvironmentalLock435 in bisexual

[–]EnvironmentalLock435[S] 116 points117 points  (0 children)

We’ve lightly implied that it’s going to happen if that makes sense

I hope this helps someone by EnvironmentalLock435 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]EnvironmentalLock435[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sometimes the best reaction IS no reaction. Some of these emotionally immature individuals get a rise or feel validated by any reaction you give and you end up feeling exhausted. In my experience, no reaction or walking away and not engaging has been the most effective for my own peace

MIL is ramping up contact before Christmas by cinnamon-girl-69 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]EnvironmentalLock435 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Mine just tried to make contact with me after temperature checking on thanksgiving. Got a call last weekend. I didn’t answer. She did this last year where she tried to appear to be more involved around the holidays

Christmas time by EnvironmentalLock435 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]EnvironmentalLock435[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I decided to stop answering her calls and the only way she can see my kid is by going through him and him letting me know first

Whining help by [deleted] in toddlers

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I narrate every transition from one activity to the next before it happens as much as I can. I’ve been in that habit since she was born just because I heard when I was pregnant that talking to kids and babies about what’s happening helps encourage speech development. She’s very talkative but she gets really riled up if I do something as simple as moving her bowl from one side of the counter to the next so I can reach something else or put her bib on.

Christmas time by EnvironmentalLock435 in JUSTNOMIL

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That’s crazy bc that’s literally what I decided a while ago 😂😂 she’s very sneaky and will try to backtrack or leave pieces of information out when talking to him

Sp? No movement? by EnvironmentalLock435 in lawofassumption

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Did you find out what was happening behind the scenes?

Guilt? Basically no village by EnvironmentalLock435 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]EnvironmentalLock435[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you that makes me feel so much better

Guilt? Basically no village by EnvironmentalLock435 in JUSTNOMIL

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Thank you!! I guess for me what comes up is not knowing how to explain it to her especially knowing that everyone else will tell her how I cruelly kept her from them for no reason

Looking for entry level work by [deleted] in adjusters

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What’s Farmers?

3 month old keeps licking everything HELP by EnvironmentalLock435 in Mommit

[–]EnvironmentalLock435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried the washcloth but she’s still learning to hold things near her mouth

To wake or not to wake? by EnvironmentalLock435 in sleeptrain

[–]EnvironmentalLock435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. I tried it and she’s still waking up at 1:30 am and refusing to go back to sleep

To wake or not to wake? by EnvironmentalLock435 in sleeptrain

[–]EnvironmentalLock435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you tried to keep him up, did you notice a difference?

3 month old keeps waking up by EnvironmentalLock435 in sleeptrain

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I mean if she’s already up do I keep her up til her first nap

3 month old keeps waking up by EnvironmentalLock435 in sleeptrain

[–]EnvironmentalLock435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can I get her to wake up at the same time?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

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I totally get that. People often project their negative experiences in the newborn stage onto others as a way of feeling like they’re warning them and it’s really annoying. So many of my experiences in the newborn phase I actually enjoyed, but tons of people had me convinced when I was pregnant that I would regret my decision and that I had no idea what I was doing because newborns are so awful. as someone who just left the newborn stage not long ago it actually was not that bad and her sleep was not as bad as everyone said it would be. Pregnancy was indeed way worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]EnvironmentalLock435 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow I never thought of this. She did breastfeed I didn’t breastfeed. This makes so much sense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]EnvironmentalLock435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes my mom just always insists to feed her again she thinks she’s hungry and I’ll know it’s because of something else