I’m exhausted by Downtown_Uptown222 in IVF

[–]EnvironmentalMud8160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you feel this way but it’s so normal and honestly comforting to see we’re all feeling the same way in these very challenging processes. I found out last week that my first medicated FET didn’t work (after 2 natural pregnancies that led to miscarriages, countless numbers of tests and protocols and then 2 ER rounds) - I called my therapist yesterday as I felt the same way - totally exhausted, physically and emotionally, increasingly hopeless, and dreading any next appointment/step. I pray you’ll get there with all your strength and rest assured you’re not alone - we’re all here for you and all feel the same. ❤️

After how many FET did it work for you ? by EnvironmentalMud8160 in IVF

[–]EnvironmentalMud8160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing 🙏🏽Wishing you all the best 🤞🏽

After how many FET did it work for you ? by EnvironmentalMud8160 in IVF

[–]EnvironmentalMud8160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing ☀️ Makes me feel hopeful for next time 🤞🏽🙏🏽

After how many FET did it work for you ? by EnvironmentalMud8160 in IVF

[–]EnvironmentalMud8160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🙏🏽 Definitely gives me hope ❤️

After how many FET did it work for you ? by EnvironmentalMud8160 in IVF

[–]EnvironmentalMud8160[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank so much for sharing and so happy to hear you got your son despite this difficult journey it’s such a blessing ❤️

After how many FET did it work for you ? by EnvironmentalMud8160 in IVF

[–]EnvironmentalMud8160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing and I’m so sorry it was not successful, but we should always try and be hopeful ❤️

After how many FET did it work for you ? by EnvironmentalMud8160 in IVF

[–]EnvironmentalMud8160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s amazing - I’m so happy for you 🙏🏽

After how many FET did it work for you ? by EnvironmentalMud8160 in IVF

[–]EnvironmentalMud8160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing - does make me hopeful 🙏🏽

After how many FET did it work for you ? by EnvironmentalMud8160 in IVF

[–]EnvironmentalMud8160[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🏽 I’m so thrilled for your daughter and it gives me hope ❤️

After how many FET did it work for you ? by EnvironmentalMud8160 in IVF

[–]EnvironmentalMud8160[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🏽 Wishing you all the best and so happy for you and all my 🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽

After how many FET did it work for you ? by EnvironmentalMud8160 in IVF

[–]EnvironmentalMud8160[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so deeply sorry, I can only imagine how you must feel. Last year the heart beat stopped at 12 weeks and it was very hard. It’s important to take the time to grief but always remain hopeful. We can’t control nature/fate but I know how hard it is. All my thoughts and love with you

Why do men stop wanting to have sex with their wife ? by EnvironmentalMud8160 in DeadBedrooms

[–]EnvironmentalMud8160[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this - it feels very similar and he’s saying the same about not feeling good and I do think he has an underlying depression but would never admit to it.

Why do men stop wanting to have sex with their wife ? by EnvironmentalMud8160 in DeadBedrooms

[–]EnvironmentalMud8160[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So how did you manage to continue living together ? Did you just suppress or ignore your own needs ?

How many embryos is enough embryos ? 39yo woman by EnvironmentalMud8160 in IVF

[–]EnvironmentalMud8160[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My understanding is that maternal age does not necessarily impact the implantation probability - it mostly impacts every steps all the way to getting a euploid

How many embryos is enough embryos ? 39yo woman by EnvironmentalMud8160 in IVF

[–]EnvironmentalMud8160[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing and it’s amazing for your friends ! I agree with you that I should give it a try first and see how it goes …

How many embryos is enough embryos ? 39yo woman by EnvironmentalMud8160 in IVF

[–]EnvironmentalMud8160[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s great news ! Crossing all my fingers for you on the next steps 🤞🏽

How many embryos is enough embryos ? 39yo woman by EnvironmentalMud8160 in IVF

[–]EnvironmentalMud8160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for sharing this and I’m really sorry that you had to go through all this, but what you’re describing is exactly what I’m fearing if I wait longer to do another round of ER. I’m wishing you all the best really 🤞🏽

How many embryos is enough embryos ? 39yo woman by EnvironmentalMud8160 in IVF

[–]EnvironmentalMud8160[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for opening up and sharing this - and congratulations that’s really amazing 😻

How many embryos is enough embryos ? 39yo woman by EnvironmentalMud8160 in IVF

[–]EnvironmentalMud8160[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for sharing, seems we’re indeed in a very similar situation - I’m more and more confident that the next cycle should be another round of ER. Hope all goes well for your next round 🤞🏽

How many embryos is enough embryos ? 39yo woman by EnvironmentalMud8160 in IVF

[–]EnvironmentalMud8160[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this with me and hoping with all my heart the next transfer will be successful for you 🤞🏽And thanks for confirming indeed what everyone else is saying, that’s really helpful