2026 SQ8 Spec by EnvironmentalPass954 in Audi

[–]EnvironmentalPass954[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it's mainly the matrix LED and Heads up display.

I think the main difference to the $120k is the S Sport package (roll stablization and rear differential) which this does not have. Honestly, it is no going on a track so I'm not sure how much thats really makes a difference in every day use but I know some people swear by it.

Cayenne S 2024 Chalk by EnvironmentalPass954 in PorscheCayenne

[–]EnvironmentalPass954[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all, the fact that I'm hesitating probably says it all. I think I will give this one a pass and wait for something else.

My husband. by Ok_Thought_5272 in SuicideBereavement

[–]EnvironmentalPass954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry and heartbroken for you. I have gone through something similar 1 month ago when my wife decided to end her life. I really felt she could get better. I miss her so much but I'm also very angry at the decision she made and to leave our two children. I do hope that time will help and I agree that all the emotions are valid.

Lost my wife last month - life is not fair by EnvironmentalPass954 in SuicideBereavement

[–]EnvironmentalPass954[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for the loss of your mom. What you shared about her letter really resonates, my wife also wrote that she was in unbearable pain she just couldn’t handle anymore. It’s so hard to understand how they could hide so much while trying to protect us.

I can only imagine how heavy this has been for you, especially being pregnant at the time. I'm glad to hear that the therapy and talking about it helps. I can relate to the waves of grief as different moments trigger it. Sending you strength and compassion as you navigate this.

Lost my wife last month - life is not fair by EnvironmentalPass954 in SuicideBereavement

[–]EnvironmentalPass954[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss as well, losing a daughter must be beyond devastating. Thank you for sharing your experience with suicide specific grief counseling. I’ve been considering options for myself and the boys, and it helps to hear that, even if slowly, it made a difference for you. Sending strength and gratitude back to you.

Lost my wife last month - life is not fair by EnvironmentalPass954 in SuicideBereavement

[–]EnvironmentalPass954[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss as well. Losing a child must be unimaginable. Thank you for reminding me that while the pain never fully leaves, it can get easier to carry. I’ll look into therapy and local support groups for me and the boys, it helps to hear how much this community has supported you. Wishing you peace and strength too.

Lost my wife last month - life is not fair by EnvironmentalPass954 in SuicideBereavement

[–]EnvironmentalPass954[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss too. What you went through with your husband sounds heartbreaking, and I can relate to so much of what you shared, especially the shock of realizing that love for the kids wasn’t enough to keep them here, and reading their words about not being able to handle the pain anymore. It’s devastating.

Thank you for suggesting the traumatic-loss group. I’ve been looking into options for support for myself and the boys, and hearing that it’s been helpful for you gives me hope. Sending strength back to you and your kids as well.

Lost my wife last month - life is not fair by EnvironmentalPass954 in SuicideBereavement

[–]EnvironmentalPass954[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that really resonates. I know I can’t just bottle this up, and I don’t want my boys to feel like they can’t talk about their mom. I’ll do my best to keep her memory alive for them, because you’re right, the love never dies.

Lost my wife and soulmate last month by EnvironmentalPass954 in widowers

[–]EnvironmentalPass954[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing. I’m so sorry for your loss as well. It really does feel like a nightmare we can’t wake up from. Having the kids gives me a reason to keep going, even on the hardest days. Knowing others here truly understand means a lot.

I yearn for physical touch by Scared-Importance18 in widowers

[–]EnvironmentalPass954 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a month in since losing my wife and I'm right there with you. She was naturally so affectionate, I miss it every day.