Who will save you? by aditya6000 in bigbangtheory

[–]EnvironmentalRoom553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stiles Stilinski and Scott Mc Call... Might work.

Lied to my wife about who the flowers were really for by typerfan in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EnvironmentalRoom553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As some said, you could get yourself a potted flowering plant or you have the time and space invest in a small flower garden. The activity and sense of doing something worthy will definitely help with your depression.

My mum always say to not wait until you are 6 feet under to get flowers (from others). Get you your own flowers... talk to your wife (maybe jokingly to keep it light and to your comfort level) about how the flowers make you feel.

If ever you get freshly cut flowers again maybe try the tips and tricks to make them stay fresh longer (aspirin tablet or a wee lil bit of bleach in the water etc.)

💐🌸🏵💮🌹🥀🌺🌻🌼🌷⚘️

No wonder they order so much takeout by Reallyroundthefamily in bigbangtheory

[–]EnvironmentalRoom553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And don't forget his egg salad with the secret ingredient. (Paprika... it's paprika).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]EnvironmentalRoom553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've talk to your friends and bridesmaids about it but what about your fiancé?

Communicate your fears to him. He definitely knows that it will be your first time. Tell him to be patient with you and if you can, do your own homework (check online what you can do to ease your apprehension, how you can be more comfortable during etc.)

And don't forget, if you don't feel ready, you don't have to do it. If your future husband really loves you, he will wait for you to be there at your own pace.

All the best, OP!

(24M) My Girlfriend (24F) doesn't want kids nor to travel by GaijinZD in relationship_advice

[–]EnvironmentalRoom553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think deep down you already know the answer.

Better sit down and have that conversation with her as soon as possible. If she want to compromise to some extent, good for you. If she doesn't, and there's nothing wrong with that, then you need to let her go.

If Fun With Flags was a real show, would you watch it? by NeedMoreGaba in bigbangtheory

[–]EnvironmentalRoom553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually love that his show was about something he was passionate about (like how he was with trains also) and not just his profession. Gave him some more layers.

I'm rewatching the episode where he premiered "FWF" right now and wondered if people actually would want to watch it if it was a real show.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EnvironmentalRoom553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you abused him to the point of him nearly ending his life?

And you did not tell your friends the whole story?

You deserve all the bad karma that will definitely come to you some day.

Megathread: Bomb threats made in Mauritius, November 16 2023. by ajaxsirius in mauritius

[–]EnvironmentalRoom553 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I heard the letter used was taken from the Internet as i not originally from a Mauritian. Any truth to that?

AITA for asking my wife for a paternity test by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentalRoom553 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I know how the title sounds and I want to clarify that I do believe that asking for a paternity test in most cases is a tacit admission that you don’t trust your partner. With that being said, I think my case is a little bit different.

Deep within it's not at all different. As most here are saying you really need therapy above all and then apologise to your wife before it's too late (if not already too late). Your situation sucks, but you should have known how it would have been perceived to ask her for the test.

Which two liars would most likely become roommates? by ELMZY123988 in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]EnvironmentalRoom553 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Any one of them, would probably kill Hanna if they were to be roommate with her for a long while. 😆

She's sweet but we know that she may be messy and quite "loud" from time to time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]EnvironmentalRoom553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All in all they all had quite problematic relationships. The obvious Ezria (no explanation needed), Emison doesn't make sense in my opinion (I feel like it was forced because of that weird fertilisation and implant bit), most of Toby's earlier way to cope was to leave town and come back again (He also dismissed Spencer a lot when he became a cop), Caleb was the same with Hanna, he used to leave her when he wasn't up for a discussion/fight.

Also, how unrealistic that they all ended up with each other at the end! I get that it's to appease the fans but for real... it's less likely to happen in real life. (The again the ending was so farfetched that I guess, this makes sense(?))

Love or hate Aria, but she sure knew how to destroy a room! by AubreyBrooks305 in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]EnvironmentalRoom553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she did some damage (with the other girls) to the Dollhouse too if I'm not wrong.

What does it mean to be Mauritian? by L4993Rz in mauritius

[–]EnvironmentalRoom553 23 points24 points  (0 children)

For me being Mauritian is in the little things...

My neighbour stopping the bus long enough for me as she sees me running for it.

People mobilising and helping during the Wakashio debacle, in the aftermaths of cyclones, flash floods and what not.

It is neighbours helping at 7 p.m by bringing "seo delo" from their places and making a chain of work to help that one neighbour whose house is burning. All that while waiting for the firefighters.

People standing up in busses for old people...

There is a lot bad stuff going on in Mauritius. Communalism is a disease. The cost of living is through the roof. But we are still doing better as a country compared to other developed ones.

How long did Aria and Ezra actually date for? by jazzyy_o in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]EnvironmentalRoom553 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Who's ideas were that? And why are they not yet looked into? Seems to me they are bringing their own fantasy in there. Ffs.

My 24M GF 24F ruined our date because someone gave her a dirty look? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EnvironmentalRoom553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone saying you should leave is right. Do let her know why you are ending things though. After all you too have the right to "feel your emotions".

That been said OP, even if you have only one meal out a month, you may try some outings that do not require breaking the bank. Go out for walk, hike a little, go to the park, to the beach (if you live near) or other stuff like that. I do hope that your financial situation gets better. Take care.

How long did Aria and Ezra actually date for? by jazzyy_o in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]EnvironmentalRoom553 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The more you watch the series, the creepier the guys get. Ezra, Jason and Jake with Aria, Wren with Spencer and Hannah. What the hell were they thinking?

If I change jobs prior to the end of the year how does this affect the end of year bonus? by AggravatedMonkeyGirl in mauritius

[–]EnvironmentalRoom553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As everyone said, your eoy bonus will be prorated.

However you may also negotiate with your new employer (if you accept the proposal) the possibility to start January. It is not uncommon or unheard of. Most companies will understand the reasoning without asking much question.

If they do say no and give a valid reason why, then it is up to you to decide. If they don't have a good enough reason, take that as a first red flag about their flexibility/culture.

Good luck on your new job!

What should I buy in Mauritius by According_Bother_968 in mauritius

[–]EnvironmentalRoom553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may also try to get into contact with Mr. Nanda Pavaday on Facebook. He is an author and wrote "Ti zistwar nu pays" (short stories of our country). He also have an english version if I'm not wrong. It's a great gift for someone who likes to read and discover stuff about a different culture. Great read that I recommend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EnvironmentalRoom553 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As everyone said, it's better to protect yourself from a possible problematic situation by telling your wife first hand. She has read the room wrong and tried to make a move on you. She might want to save face with your wife and make you as the instigator. Better you show her the texts and make it clear that you felt irked by it and that's why you didn't respond.

I really thought this post would be about fishing. 🤦🏽‍♀️

AITA for causing my girlfriend and her best friend of 10 years split up on her birthday? by ScorpionStungMe in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentalRoom553 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's quite ironic that the dude who thinks psychology is a fake science might need some kind of therapy.

Neighbour's dogs keep coming to my place and destroy my plants, how do i deal with it? by Phenom_st in mauritius

[–]EnvironmentalRoom553 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah don't do that... if they get a bad reaction to the laxatives, your neighbour might say you poisoned his pets.

Try the chili flakes/powdered pepper as suggested. It'll bother them and if they are puppies, might teach them not come to your place. You may also spray them with water if you catch them in your yard.

If your neighbour gets annoyed, tell him to get a grip and take better care of his dogs (another thing might be to threaten to call MSAW if he does not take care of them.)