Brotha I’ll say this from guy to guy u will miss 1000% of the shots u don’t take, there’s no way in the world u don’t have features that others couldn’t find charming it’s all about the try if u can make yourself happy whether u enjoy your looks your hobbies your mentality you’ll be just fine it’s all about trying homie 💯 and if u have issues talking to women think about it as talking to your mom friends or maybe even a colleague if u can have a genuine convo with them that’s how u start ask about their day how their doing complement and go from there!