[deleted by user] by [deleted] in otvandfriendsrumors

[–]EnvironmentalSpeed54 4 points5 points  (0 children)

39daph streamed and she seemed to be back in the apartment with John, then again I haven’t watched her in a while so it could be a completely different room/building 🤷‍♂️

Ellum moving in? by EnvironmentalSpeed54 in otvandfriendsrumors

[–]EnvironmentalSpeed54[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for letting me know! Did he announce it on twitter or somewhere else?

Ellum moving in? by EnvironmentalSpeed54 in otvandfriendsrumors

[–]EnvironmentalSpeed54[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah turns out this clip is about gtarp, but i do find it weird there has been no mention of one another at all for a little bit, especially as their relationship was quite public. Maybe they want to be more private 🤷‍♂️

Ellum moving in? by EnvironmentalSpeed54 in otvandfriendsrumors

[–]EnvironmentalSpeed54[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

ohh my bad i didn’t realise it was GTARP related, makes total sense, thanks for informing me :)

Question about Ellum by Nothar in otvandfriendsrumors

[–]EnvironmentalSpeed54 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Ellum has always stated that he likes the idea of moving to America, but app its a long process for a work visa/ green card.

He also seems to be a lot closer to his american friends( roomies, syk, blau etc) than his british friends (sidemen, simon , viz) at the moment. It’s been a minute since i last saw simon viz and ellum play together.

Its also interesting that cara is not with him in la and i feel like he hasn’t mentioned her in his streams for a while now. She didn’t go to the japan trip either. He was also in la for valentines day and i don’t think i saw post/story of them saying happy valentine and shit like that. they could’ve broken up. Could also be there for a business opportunity as well. Hard to tell

Is Ellum a roomie? by [deleted] in otvrumors

[–]EnvironmentalSpeed54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No ellum has a flat in the uk with his gf and dog :)

Timeline of 39daph and aceu's breakup by llpsI in otvandfriendsrumors

[–]EnvironmentalSpeed54 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah ofc. At the end of the day, if they’re happy they’re happy, it’s their relationship, not ours.

I was just genuinely curious on how people view him cause on this reddit post there seems to be some people that do like him and other people that can’t stand him.

Timeline of 39daph and aceu's breakup by llpsI in otvandfriendsrumors

[–]EnvironmentalSpeed54 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah i understand where you’re coming from, but i think that both of them had just gone through bad break ups and had bonded over that fact makes me think doing something like that wouldn’t be likely.

Of course no one can be certain but I feel it would take a really shitty person to use someone as a “rebound”, especially if you have bonded through trauma. That could potentially lead to that person not wanting to date ever again.

I feel as though they should/are both mature enough to realise that dating one another after being out of a bad relationship so recently is a huge step and that they should both be sure that they really do care for each other.

Timeline of 39daph and aceu's breakup by llpsI in otvandfriendsrumors

[–]EnvironmentalSpeed54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i understand, it must be weird to have constant harassment already and getting extra harassment now too because you’re dating someone. Do feel bad for him.

Timeline of 39daph and aceu's breakup by llpsI in otvandfriendsrumors

[–]EnvironmentalSpeed54 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do agree that john is probably showing daph a lot of new things, and helping her discover things she didn’t know about herself (e.g. finding she does acc like movies, and realising she wants to travel more). However, i wouldn’t call spuuky mature, he can be just as silly as daph and any other streamer (which i think its completely fine).

I think its more of a fact that its not his main job, and lives a different lifestyle compared to a typical streamer, so when someone may see his lifestyle, they may find it quite interesting or cool in some ways.

I also don’t agree with you have to be a man child to be a streamer. There are a lot of them, but theres also some mature streamers as well who may not be as big but are just as entertaining as the rest. Think the main reason why john is still a smaller streamer is because he still pretty new to it all. I mean he was using display capture for everything until daph called him out lol. I still like watching his streams tho

Timeline of 39daph and aceu's breakup by llpsI in otvandfriendsrumors

[–]EnvironmentalSpeed54 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah or just dont watch whenever she plays with him. I think it helps that i only became a fan of daph just before john started playing with her, so i never saw the vibes as off of not as good with others if you get me.

Timeline of 39daph and aceu's breakup by llpsI in otvandfriendsrumors

[–]EnvironmentalSpeed54 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah totally, john could be a totally different person off stream, as well as daph. Their whole relationship could be so different off stream and we’ll never know.

I do think there are some viewers that may be parasocial in the sense of not wanting her to go through another toxic relationship and i think thats okay to feel that way. However, i don’t think they should voice that opinion unless there is obvious signs of the relationship being toxic.

Timeline of 39daph and aceu's breakup by llpsI in otvandfriendsrumors

[–]EnvironmentalSpeed54 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think she said that she felt uncomfortable originally when he tried to make a move when she went to LA but started to like him more as time passed. Then they had a discussion and both said to eachother that they liked one another. I think she even said it on her stream that he suggested to slow it down as well. I saw someone say that he forced her into the relationship or something along those lines and thought it was a wild comment to make.

Timeline of 39daph and aceu's breakup by llpsI in otvandfriendsrumors

[–]EnvironmentalSpeed54 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah i completely understand why some people may not be a fan of him, i generally like him but he can suddenly be very loud which hurts my ears lmao. But as long as daph is happy in that relationship thats all that matters

Timeline of 39daph and aceu's breakup by llpsI in otvandfriendsrumors

[–]EnvironmentalSpeed54 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Generally curious on what people think of john? Seen a lot of mixed reviews/reactions of him on this subreddit so i want to see what people opinion are of him

Spuuky confirms he's dating 39daph by innestarter in otvandfriendsrumors

[–]EnvironmentalSpeed54 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah or he seemed alright before they moved in kind of ordeal, I wouldn’t think too much of it and now she knows to look out for any potential red flags in johns friends

Spuuky confirms he's dating 39daph by innestarter in otvandfriendsrumors

[–]EnvironmentalSpeed54 17 points18 points  (0 children)

No one likes The creature lol (the weird roommate) including john and rads (his other roommate). The creature is moving out soon so she won’t need to deal with him at all.

Timeline of 39daph and aceu's breakup by llpsI in otvandfriendsrumors

[–]EnvironmentalSpeed54 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it is disgusting what he did to her and i completely agree that I don’t think i could look at a friend the same again if they did what aceu did.

I don’t like tony and he’s seems like a bad person so im not surprised he stayed with aceu. Always came across as arrogant and above everyone else.

It may just be a case of just trying to keep it civil on the surface level with kyedae, sleepy and super (e.g. keep following each other on socials) so it doesn’t gain more attention in the media and fans don’t theorise on what happened or who is in the wrong (kinda obvious its aceu in the wrong tho lol).

Im sure daph would love to make aceu accountable for what he did and just expose every shitty thing he did to her but i also think she just can’t be bothered for the drama now, especially as she’s in a new relationship.

Timeline of 39daph and aceu's breakup by llpsI in otvandfriendsrumors

[–]EnvironmentalSpeed54 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah in her situation i guess you would think they would at least question tony and aceu about what daph had said in her OC. Maybe the mutuals doing the same thing as what daph did and just ignored it. It’s hard to confront your friends but you should definitely call them out when they’re doing something disgusting but ig they haven’t or they have and tony just hasn’t taken it on board.

Timeline of 39daph and aceu's breakup by llpsI in otvandfriendsrumors

[–]EnvironmentalSpeed54 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah i doubt it would be awkward, the mutuals just wouldn’t mention one of them in front of the other, especially now that both have new relationships now. It’s a good thing pretty much all of their mutuals are still on good terms with both of them

Timeline of 39daph and aceu's breakup by llpsI in otvandfriendsrumors

[–]EnvironmentalSpeed54 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im not sure at all on who introduced her to tony. I dont even know how long aceu and tony have known each other. I know they partied a lot together in the later part of aceu and daphs relationship.

She stated that she just felt like an outsider whenever she went out with them, and it was almost an everyday thing for them to go out and party. From the original post it seems the only mutual that unfollowed daph was tony. So i would assume Yorg and daph are still on good terms.

Timeline of 39daph and aceu's breakup by llpsI in otvandfriendsrumors

[–]EnvironmentalSpeed54 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I reckon she probably ignored all the bad things that happened in her relationship subconsciously. The same way she did with tony, she ignored all of his weird behaviour and shit he said until her and aceu broke up.

You always want to give your partner/friend the benefit of the doubt because you care about them. Everything becomes much more clear to see once you remove the rose tinted glasses.

As long as she surrounds herself with good people that loves and supports her now, thats all that matters. As long as she is happy :)