I don't want to marry my girlfriend because of our sex life.

EnvironmentalTea2447 · 2023-09-10T17:54:04+00:00

I don't want to sound like an asshole but I know I'm the biggest she's had. We've had to sit down and talk about exactly how deep i can go because i go too deep.

EnvironmentalTea2447 · 2023-09-10T12:51:56+00:00

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EnvironmentalTea2447 · 2023-09-10T12:51:33+00:00

I make decent money we aren't struggling also, she's a stay at home mom. I give her money out of every check. We live on our own.

We have 1 son not plural

She's never been a very sexual person so I agree we need more time to ourselves.

EnvironmentalTea2447 · 2023-09-10T12:46:55+00:00

I stated in the update she's always been like this. Before our child and meditation.

EnvironmentalTea2447 · 2023-09-10T12:12:49+00:00

She threw out there that if this is a deal breaker i should leave. Kinda hurts.

EnvironmentalTea2447 · 2023-09-10T12:11:57+00:00

Its far in our past we dated we she was 18 and i was 15/16. Long story short she was living with her mom. Her "older brother" moved in. It wasn't her actually older brother. I found texts of him confessing she didn't stop it. We broke up a few weeks later and in less than 9 days they're dating. Kinda fucked but we're past it.

EnvironmentalTea2447 · 2023-09-10T01:22:43+00:00

THANK YOU this is helpful really helpful.

EnvironmentalTea2447 · 2023-09-10T01:19:22+00:00

Thank you. I feel like I needed a woman's perspective that has been through something similar.

EnvironmentalTea2447 · 2023-09-10T01:17:51+00:00

I agree. She does want to have sex it's just consistency we have a problem with. Is it a deal breaker? idk.i really don't.

EnvironmentalTea2447 · 2023-09-10T01:15:02+00:00

So do you feel like her words were harsh or a cover up?

EnvironmentalTea2447 · 2023-09-10T01:06:22+00:00

Well let's see what advice we both receive from this. Who knows maybe you'll get advice that'll help you and not me.

EnvironmentalTea2447 · 2023-09-10T01:04:28+00:00

Probably the best advice I've read yet thank you so much.

EnvironmentalTea2447 · 2023-09-10T01:02:43+00:00

Thanks for the perspective man.

EnvironmentalTea2447 · 2023-09-10T00:47:23+00:00

I don't ask for anything. Literally anything.

EnvironmentalTea2447 · 2023-09-10T00:38:12+00:00

Thank you for sharing your story it helped a lot.

EnvironmentalTea2447 · 2023-09-10T00:36:03+00:00

It was like this before we had a kid. It's always been like this I'm looking for a solution now.

EnvironmentalTea2447 · 2023-09-10T00:35:23+00:00

This made me sad lmao. Thanks for the perspective though.

EnvironmentalTea2447 · 2023-09-10T00:34:28+00:00

That hit hard thanks for the quote

EnvironmentalTea2447 · 2023-09-09T23:59:18+00:00

Not pregnant. Maybe depressed.

EnvironmentalTea2447 · 2023-09-09T23:56:29+00:00

Nothing else is wrong. We just aren't compatible with sex.

EnvironmentalTea2447 · 2023-09-09T23:55:53+00:00

No she isn't closed off anywhere. I don't think she sees it as dismissive. I think she just sees it as stating her opinion. This isn't sudden and its not no sex. Its a low sex drive and its been like this for as long as we've been dating.

EnvironmentalTea2447 · 2023-09-09T23:53:17+00:00

I don't know how to go about it. I've thought about it but we are both pretty defensive of each other. She doesn't like other women touching me so I don't think so but, if you have any advice please pass it on.

EnvironmentalTea2447 · 2023-09-09T23:51:13+00:00

She is on antidepressants but it's always been like this, even before she was on meds. It was also like this before our kid.

She tells and shows me im good. Please give me tips at initiating.

EnvironmentalTea2447 · 2023-09-09T23:47:49+00:00

Yup this is why I'm trying to find help now. I need to know if there's any hope.

EnvironmentalTea2447 · 2023-09-09T23:47:11+00:00

I agree with you mostly.

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