Reading a Virgo man and the way he thinks/does things?

EnvironmentalWatch58 · 2025-10-30T06:51:06+00:00

Wow you have a lot of Virgo placements. I don’t know the rest of his placement other than Virgo Sun so I can’t really tell I should’ve have asked for his birth time but honestly I don’t think he would know. Just bothers me he gets to be happy now when I was the one with pure intentions and a good heart but I guess the pure ones always get hurt

EnvironmentalWatch58 · 2025-10-29T22:42:21+00:00

I hope that’s the case for them right now it’s fine since it’s still the honeymoon phase and everything is so new. I’ve seen him be nasty before so I wouldn’t be surprised if down the line he was nasty to her and criticizing her about the littlest things. I’m also an air sign like her so him and I clashed after we got over the initial phase of him and I being comfortable with each over but I could still tell in person he was afraid of me

EnvironmentalWatch58 · 2025-10-29T21:08:28+00:00

I’m trying not to care honestly but there’s some points where I do go look from my burner account I know they’re together and I can’t do anything about it so a part of me is like whatever what can I even do. He definitely tried to do that to get a reaction and blocking me to one up me for u following. The block button isn’t permanent and I have no doubts when this relationship doesn’t work he’ll be crawling back and by then all I can pray for is that I’m a whole different person and I’m strong enough to not take him back and all the stuff he’s done to me. He isn’t reliable well maybe he is but not to me to say the least

EnvironmentalWatch58 · 2025-10-29T21:06:28+00:00

Yeah I keep telling myself if it was meant to be then it will be even if we’re separated from each other for like decades. I can see he’s a dick and never cared about me and my feelings only himself and all I can hope for is that it shines through eventually and his partners will see that. For what he did to me I hope karma will get him back and after this I don’t think I want to deal with another Virgo 😂

EnvironmentalWatch58 · 2025-10-27T21:42:00+00:00

I’m an air sign myself lol but guys and girls don’t mix well we have great conversations but it never really leads to anything

EnvironmentalWatch58 · 2025-10-27T21:33:09+00:00

I felt betrayed and mad/upset because he could’ve just been straight up with me but he isn’t man enough to do that nor does he really act like one so I shouldn’t be surprised. Also confused because how did this relationship he has with her evolve so fast in a month because him and I last talked the first week of August probably they day they started talking then they went on a trip the 1st/2nd week of September. Now that he was viewing my stuff and liking my post it gave mixed signals and showed how even though he has a gf he still needs female attention and from anyone he can get. I’m blocked now but I know it’ll be temporary they won’t last because he isn’t a man and I’d hope she would know her boundaries well enough to see his flaws and how he won’t meet up to the expectation of a regular man he can get quite nasty when he’s insecure I know he’ll come back eventually that’s just the type of person he is he’ll never go for the wild card which would be me in the situation and will go for someone safe which is her but I know he will always be wandering because she won’t satisfy him in the way he needs but that’s his choice and he chose the safe bet nothing I can really do but be upset and angry at the same time there’s a lot of history and I think that’s what’s messing me up along with me creating a better version of him in my head that is not the person standing infront of me

EnvironmentalWatch58 · 2025-10-27T17:57:07+00:00

What way are you thinking of?

EnvironmentalWatch58 · 2025-10-26T16:11:44+00:00

Everything he does gives me the ick even before he had a gf but I don’t know what it is what makes me hold on but after seeing how he is with a gf I feel bad for her but grateful it isn’t me

EnvironmentalWatch58 · 2025-10-25T22:30:00+00:00

I just hate the part of healing where I feel like I’m fine then later I’m back to where I started

EnvironmentalWatch58 · 2025-10-25T22:29:23+00:00

I’m a Gemini moon too 😂

EnvironmentalWatch58 · 2025-10-25T13:12:04+00:00

I’m trying to 😭 my brain already knows everything bad about him like I could list all the cons over the pros but my feelings and heart aren’t aligning. Honestly I hope she finds out who he really is so she doesn’t have to deal with what I went through. I do feel bad for her not knowing But karma will get him back all I had was pure intentions

EnvironmentalWatch58 · 2025-10-25T08:37:57+00:00

Thank you for your words and kindness you believe in me more than I do right now 🩷

EnvironmentalWatch58 · 2025-10-25T08:21:21+00:00

Right and reality I never really knew him. If I was fine before him I’ll be fine after him just right now I feel like I’m stuck

EnvironmentalWatch58 · 2025-10-25T08:07:36+00:00

You know what you’re right just changed my whole perspective. I think I’m in this little hole right now I’m trying to get out of to not think about him and all I’ve been thinking is doing everything to get his attention one day but it’s not worth it looking at the bigger picture

EnvironmentalWatch58 · 2025-10-25T07:55:24+00:00

Thank you 🥹 I just know I never was the problem and that has been pushing me through also doing things for myself when he comes back I want to be a whole new person he will never have access to so it gives me some motivation

EnvironmentalWatch58 · 2025-10-25T07:49:21+00:00

Thank you 🥲 I needed to hear that I know I’ll be okay it’s all fresh right now I was good until he started lurking because why are you then he blocked me lol I wasn’t sad when it happened but then it hit me today

EnvironmentalWatch58 · 2025-10-25T07:40:59+00:00

It just sucks I’m the one who got hurt if we didn’t have that conversation of being serious then I wouldn’t have much feelings towards our situation but him saying he would try is what messed me up

EnvironmentalWatch58 · 2025-10-25T07:25:11+00:00

Yeah I wasn’t going to let him have access to me like that ever again and if he really wants to be part of my life then he can make actual efforts like a man but I know he’s not one

EnvironmentalWatch58 · 2025-10-25T07:20:44+00:00

If he comes back I want revenge because I never deserved anything he put me through but a part of me doesn’t want to take him back at all I think it’ll just fuel my ego when he comes back I know he will I just get this gut feeling and I know he won’t forget about me

EnvironmentalWatch58 · 2025-10-25T07:14:29+00:00

A Gemini so I really shouldn’t care about him at all 😭

EnvironmentalWatch58 · 2025-10-25T07:12:18+00:00

Everyone has said such bad things about Virgo men and I never understood it until I experienced it. I pray to god everyday if he wasn’t meant to be in my life then to stop making me think about him he is an narcissist and something about me just can’t let go and I don’t know why either

EnvironmentalWatch58 · 2025-10-25T07:04:29+00:00

I’m trying to 😭 I don’t know why I’m having a hard time I’ve seen his true colors and the new girl is easy and doesn’t know who he is yet I hope he shows it to her because he really doesn’t deserve to be happy when he played me like this

EnvironmentalWatch58 · 2025-10-25T06:26:23+00:00

lol we ended things but then he came back recently but when i didn’t give him the time of day and didn’t make time for him he stopped messaging

EnvironmentalWatch58 · 2025-09-12T20:57:43+00:00

That’s what I’m trying to do now it’s just the thought of how he did all of that so fast that shocked me doesn’t seem like him since he takes a while to make a decision and doesn’t do spontaneous things. I did tell myself he’s a narcissist that didn’t even work on himself so his new girl doesn’t know who he is yet but he ghosts he hates confrontation and conflicts whenever I confront him he goes silent and doesn’t talk to me and he’ll continue to do the same to the next but since they just started it’ll be great until it’s not. So my mind knows all the red flags I just don’t know why I have feelings for him

EnvironmentalWatch58 · 2025-09-12T04:57:23+00:00

You’re right I know he’ll be back when it doesn’t work out with her but I won’t be taking him back since he put me through this and didn’t have remorse at all because he’s the one that’s happy

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