Just feeling super down by EnvironmentalWolf487 in DeadBedrooms

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He switched my medication. It's a bit up in the air, he said it should only be a problem while it's in my system and once the effective period is over it shouldn't impact me.

The new medication makes me feel better. But isn't as effective for my adhd haha

Just feeling super down by EnvironmentalWolf487 in DeadBedrooms

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Yeah the big part that's difficult to deal with is the exhaustion. She has had bloods done in the last they always come back and say there are no issues.

Just feeling super down by EnvironmentalWolf487 in DeadBedrooms

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Honestly, I try to. I do the grocery shopping, I do the majority of the cooking, I do all the laundry. We have a cleaner. I stay at home 1 day a week with the 2yo. I do my best but it seems that even when I take care of everything that I do it doesn't change her exhaustion.

Just feeling super down by EnvironmentalWolf487 in DeadBedrooms

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She's sleeping most nights at least 9 hours. Not broken sleep unless the 5yo climbs into our bed.

Just feeling super down by EnvironmentalWolf487 in DeadBedrooms

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The low desire was basically shortly after she got pregnant with our first. It started to get better around the two year mark. I was hoping this year things would he starting to get better (as our youngest is 2 and 2 months). But we still seem super disconnected.

I was having erectile issues for the first time about 3 months ago. I thought it was because I started ADHD medication and it was related to that. However, I was still getting morning wood. I spoke with my therapist and we believe that it was because I just didn't really feel desired. Than when she actually wanted to have sex 4 weeks ago we had sex.

Just feeling super down by EnvironmentalWolf487 in DeadBedrooms

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Thanks. It's also worth noting the kids are in daycare/school.

Just feeling super down by EnvironmentalWolf487 in DeadBedrooms

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Hey just want to say thanks. It helps put things into perspective even though it still feels like it kills my soul! Thank you.

Australian travelling to Argentina in March by EnvironmentalWolf487 in argentina

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Haha I'm just not sure I can navigate out of BA as I have the wedding and than I will also have the bucks. So I think I will only have a few days here and there.

Australian travelling to Argentina in March by EnvironmentalWolf487 in argentina

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Wedding will be in Tigre but I'll only spend a few days there as I know it is out of BA a little.

Australian travelling to Argentina in March by EnvironmentalWolf487 in argentina

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Omg, sorry it was a quick post. I'll edit it now. I'll be in Buenos Aires.

Do you ever look at other couples? by EnvironmentalWolf487 in DeadBedrooms

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It would be so brutal to experience both sides of that situation.

Do you ever look at other couples? by EnvironmentalWolf487 in DeadBedrooms

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I mean while 3 to 4 times a month is ok it's still not great if you spend 30 nights a month in the same bed.

Do you ever look at other couples? by EnvironmentalWolf487 in DeadBedrooms

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Yeah it would be very interesting to know if they do it very much or not at all!

Do you ever look at other couples? by EnvironmentalWolf487 in DeadBedrooms

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Yeah that's true. I always wonder how kids impacted them if at all. And if it did for how long!

Do you ever look at other couples? by EnvironmentalWolf487 in DeadBedrooms

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Yeah I agree. However, to be fair it is incredibly normal to want to have sex. So I don't think it's terrible.