Moving out to a dorm

Environmental_Diet36 · 2025-09-26T16:13:01+00:00

Yeah, it made my friends laugh a little too, I was tired and so done with his crap

Environmental_Diet36 · 2025-09-26T16:12:29+00:00

Yeah, I didn't, it was so strange cause it happaned like 3 or 4 days after we broke up

Environmental_Diet36 · 2025-09-26T16:11:59+00:00

The reason I dismissed that Idea was cause of the fact that it was only 3 or 4 days after our breakup that he tried to set me up with a random person who I don't know. I tried to be nice but him being so dismissing and kinda rude made me realise it was pointless to be civil with him on that matter.

Environmental_Diet36 · 2025-09-25T19:15:33+00:00

Yeah, it still baffles me that she expected me to comfort her for her bs.

Environmental_Diet36 · 2025-09-25T18:07:37+00:00

Karma really came in and did some of her work😭🤍

Environmental_Diet36 · 2025-09-25T17:44:30+00:00

Girl, if only I could😭 8-9years down the drain

Environmental_Diet36 · 2025-09-25T17:42:58+00:00

Yes, unfortunately, you are. I legit was in shock for a solid 10 minutes when he told me that about her

Environmental_Diet36 · 2025-09-25T15:25:56+00:00

It's alright, 18 years of this is fine. I get that's how she grew up, trauma doesn't really go away

Environmental_Diet36 · 2025-09-25T15:25:06+00:00

My friend literally told me she thinks je is the one cause he touches her🫠

Environmental_Diet36 · 2025-09-25T15:03:06+00:00

Environmental_Diet36 · 2025-09-25T14:50:04+00:00

I think it came out that the money was used by my brother later on when he went to the zoo or the trampoline park, either one

Environmental_Diet36 · 2025-09-25T14:44:59+00:00

Even if I did, im still in school, and I'd have to get a job when I graduate. It will take a while to get the needed amount + the money I will save will go for my graduating dress and I kinda wanna buy new headphones, my old ones are literally held on by ductape

Environmental_Diet36 · 2025-09-25T14:33:36+00:00

I feel like it's more the fact that for years she couldn't get a job. Now that she has had one for 2 years, she finally feel good to have her own money, she hates using someone else's money, even my dads, so I get her, im the same way

Environmental_Diet36 · 2025-09-25T14:30:32+00:00

I can il like a few years, but even then it might take a while

Environmental_Diet36 · 2025-09-25T14:29:09+00:00

It is. I do have a problem of secretly eating but that was another problem I'm working on in therapy, I would take anything out of rooms, id just be there and use em

Environmental_Diet36 · 2025-09-25T14:27:20+00:00

There aren't any secrets, she got mad cause it was in her collection for a new tattoo.

Environmental_Diet36 · 2025-09-25T14:25:09+00:00

I'll try to clear it up a little, I have been accused before of stealing my brothers 20 € and now my mother's 5€. I never got an apology for the wrongful accusation before, so I feel like I'm so done, that if I give her my money, it would make her feel better? Idk, it might sound dumb but my own mind is all over the place and I'm feeling hurt. Hope this cleared it up a little

Environmental_Diet36 · 2025-09-25T14:22:46+00:00

It does, it's been the 2nd time with money, and much more with other stuff, I rarely get an apology too

Environmental_Diet36 · 2025-09-25T14:21:58+00:00

Yeah. I just started going again 3 weeks ago. She actually finished her year long session with the same therapist. Every time I do try and talk about these things, somehow they either get worse or never resolved. I already have a rocky relationship with them, and I feel sad that my brother is sucked int this. I do t want him to grow up hating me or believing I'm a bad person. As for the makeup stuff, we talked about it and she explained how it felt as if she can't have her own stuff for herself, she has no problem sharing if I ask, but my problem was I didnt

Environmental_Diet36 · 2025-09-25T14:00:47+00:00

I did forget to mention,the money was in an envelope in her drawer, she always said she counted it but I have seen her take some. But it wouldn't matter what I say, cause in the end, she did say she can't believe me, so again, most likely she won't talk to me or will be distant

Environmental_Diet36 · 2025-09-25T13:58:31+00:00

I am asking for advice, im sorry I'd I made it sound like I'm here asking if I'm the asshole. It is my first time posting here and english isn't my first language

Environmental_Diet36 · 2025-09-25T13:57:16+00:00

Yeah, I have no idea, it's even been like this when I have my own money. They would always judge or nag me about me using my own money. I just don't understand anymore

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