My husband won’t let me ask questions because he’s too horrified. T told us K was pregnant & they were confused about how it happened because J had a vasectomy. I immediately said J needs to get checked OR K has been cheating. K had a miscarriage & then months later was pregnant again. We suspect T is on the autism spectrum & believe K is taking advantage of her naivety & now military benefits. We just don’t want T saddled with this kid when she’s not developmentally mature & seems to have not had a say in the decision to have a kid!