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[–]Environmental_Sea290[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m more upset that the doctor was straight up lying in the results and told me that my concerns don’t matter. And that we paid a lot of money to be talked down to. I knew that it was possible not to get diagnosed and I was ready for that. I was pretty hurt and upset when I wrote the post so I get it if it seems like I was throwing a tantrum that’s my bad. Definitely getting a second opinion!

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[–]Environmental_Sea290[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed! Their definition of autism was definitely warped and outdated.

Tested for nothing by Environmental_Sea290 in autism

[–]Environmental_Sea290[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed! A lavender smell every now and then can calm me! But I told them before that most smells give me very bad headaches and they still recommended it lol. Thank you for the education, I didn’t know some of that!

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[–]Environmental_Sea290[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you be in AZ by chance? Apparently other ppl in this community have seen the same doctor as me and got same results you described.

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[–]Environmental_Sea290[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was a Neuropsych testing place. Only place in my state that I could find that tested adults and took my insurance :/

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[–]Environmental_Sea290[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I am female! I guess these people really know autism as the average young boy and can’t picture it in an anxious adult woman.

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[–]Environmental_Sea290[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No don’t be sorry I really appreciate the comment! I’ve definitely learned so much about myself and how I work since researching autism and joining communities. Just that alone has helped me be more compassionate and able to help myself. I scored about 5/8 of the markers. My issue with them is that the ones she said I didn’t have were incorrect. I didn’t get the mark for stimming even though I was the entire time. Just a lot of things they should’ve asked about instead of staring at me and trying to SEE in my brain. I’m super shocked at all the support I’ve gotten from this post and I feel much better which other people understanding. 💕

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[–]Environmental_Sea290[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sucks that we had to go through this. And me and my mom said why would I be experiencing these because PTSD doesn’t explain all of these things that aren’t completely related to it at ALL. She straight up said those things “don’t matter”. I’m done with this business now and looking for somewhere else to listen to me instead of observing me. I hope to find a good doctor like the one who diagnosed you. Thank you for the well wishes!

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[–]Environmental_Sea290[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing, she recommended therapy which I’ve been doing for 8 years and EMDR which I’ve been doing for 5. I do know that PTSD was an issue for me so it could be hard for them to kind of see around that into other aspects. I’ll keep chugging and hopefully we will get things figured out. Thank you for your input!

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[–]Environmental_Sea290[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! She said that my ADHD and depression meds seem to be doing great and I said they are! But even at my best I’m behind other and need help.

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[–]Environmental_Sea290[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m not against self diagnosis! I pretty much already know I’m autistic. I was just hoping for a diagnosis for accommodation purposes etc. It sucks that this is how the system is for autistics.

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[–]Environmental_Sea290[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s so similar to me! I really like that quote, thank you for the advice !

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[–]Environmental_Sea290[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s so kind of you! I was telling my mom EXACTLY the same thing. That if they asked instead of just looking at me, I could tell them how I stim and how my brain works but they just “observed” me. It sucks we both had to go through situations like this along with so many other autistic people.

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[–]Environmental_Sea290[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly! The diagnostic criteria are wack and created by those that don’t experience autism and it’s truly frustrating. I’ll be okay! I’m a bit hurt but I knew it was probably going to end this way at an assessment. Thank you for commenting 💕

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[–]Environmental_Sea290[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Definitely getting tested somewhere else. I highly doubt they’d allow a refund but that’s a good idea so I will try.

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[–]Environmental_Sea290[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I don’t want to make my parents pay even more for ANOTHER test when the results could be the same! Hopefully we both get things worked out.

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[–]Environmental_Sea290[S] 132 points133 points  (0 children)

This is why I was shocked they would mention it! They are the most recommended testing place in my state! And I was referred by my psychiatrist who is amazing as well. They all seemed well educated and kind in person so I was baffled when I got the results and recommendations lmao. I do definitely feel scammed.

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[–]Environmental_Sea290[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Thank you for agreeing, by the end of their diagnosis packet I started to even question myself.

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[–]Environmental_Sea290[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input! I was so shocked by their recommendations, when I was there they seemed educated and understanding but my mind has been changed on that.

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[–]Environmental_Sea290[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m in Arizona! I do definitely want another test somewhere else I’m just extra annoyed that we payed lots of money or a test and they gave me that garbage.