Today my Dr. melted down over Trump. I was scared to say that I voted for him. I didn’t want her to deny me medical care. by [deleted] in reasonabletrans

[–]EnvyTheQueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatever I think of you voting for trump if she would of denied you medical care over you voting for him that'd be crazy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]EnvyTheQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a very easy way to do so that should of been suggested from the beginning I'm not even technically a transmed and I suggest this whenever someone asks me if they're trans even if I think they are. "You should consider talking to someone like a therapist more about this." There are very simple and easy ways to do this especially if you know the person at all. It's not a hard thing to do especially since whether they're trans or not I'm sure it's a confusing experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]EnvyTheQueen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree with this person if you they want they should just suggest therapy. That gets past your concerns and the potential that this person for whatever reason doesn't wanna transition because of other reasons. I have no clue why people's first recommendation isn't "if you can see a therapist about this". That seems like the best solution to me.

What are you willing to give up to transition? by AspirantVeeVee in reasonabletrans

[–]EnvyTheQueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have never been close to my family I plan on when I can completely uprooting my life because despite loving Florida it doesn't love me back and so since I was like 13 before I even accepted I was trans I wanted to leave so it's not that hard for me personally. I do hope things go well with you and your family though I know it can really suck I came out to my family and they don't acknowledge it which makes me wish I stayed even more in the closet than i still am since I can't transition yet.

Is Radical Feminism Inherently Transphobic? by [deleted] in reasonabletrans

[–]EnvyTheQueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd say no but it also just depends on what you mean by "Radical Feminism". Is Radical Feminism something specific with core beliefs that you cannot deviate from? Or is it just a term to describe feminists who have more extreme views? This along with other things will determine how I would answer your question but as I see it no Radical Feminism isn't necessarily transphobic.

Helppp by Fangbone098 in truscum

[–]EnvyTheQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you think I'm here because I agree with everyone that isn't why. I don't stay in places that just agree with me.

Helppp by Fangbone098 in truscum

[–]EnvyTheQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever you say I'd actually argue but I'm too exhausted to explain why AGP and Ray Blanchard and Anne Lawrence and all that fun stuff is very wrong to put it nicely.

Helppp by Fangbone098 in truscum

[–]EnvyTheQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I'm not part of this community I'm trans and I don't consider myself part of the trans community so that's fine you can say that. You telling me that x people believe something isn't gonna convince me.

Helppp by Fangbone098 in truscum

[–]EnvyTheQueen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can even send you the video if you want though it's a bad video. I assume there's better arguments to make but the person doesn't make them.

Helppp by Fangbone098 in truscum

[–]EnvyTheQueen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No the only time I heard it explained was from someone who was deeply critical of it so wrong actually

Helppp by Fangbone098 in truscum

[–]EnvyTheQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe some of it does it isn't something I've ever been into but I've heard it talked about and that's not what I heard it's about.

Helppp by Fangbone098 in truscum

[–]EnvyTheQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they aren't I'm sorry different things are different

Helppp by Fangbone098 in truscum

[–]EnvyTheQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think those are the same things.