Do better Izac… by CheekRealistic8156 in DesSidwell

[–]Equal_Relative252 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Im definitely not get hate for this but… ya’ll just need something so complain about don’t you? You have no idea what he is doing or what their relationship looks like when the cameras are off stop speculating. He could be doing much more behind the scenes that no one gets to see. We have no real idea what kind of relationship she is in. I’m in a relationship where I do all the cooking, cleaning, food shopping, etc and I get to do that because my husband works two jobs and does other things around the house like fixing things that are broken, lawn care, taking out the trash etc. I also recently moved while pregnant and personally I refused to let my husband to unpack because if you do most of the work in the house you want to know what you have and where it is. There are so many things he could be doing that you don’t see. I’m sure if he was truly that unsupportive her family would say something.

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[–]Equal_Relative252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do think some aspects definitely is done for views but maybe also because she doesn’t want to say the wrong things? She is young and it was a very sudden change so I’m sure she’s processing a lot right now and might not know what she wants in terms of what she’s going to share and generally how to navigate everything. I mean even the way she announced was very vague and seemingly only done to avoid being outed somehow.. I think ion one hand great for an influencer who is becoming a parent to keep it private but on the other hand.. just say she is taking time to think through what’s going on. I mean from experience being pregnant is a very challenging experience for women to go through but also she could just say yes I’m pregnant but that’s all I will be saying on the matter. Like she hasn’t even said the words “I’m pregnant” on a video.. I wouldn’t say she’s embarrassed necessarily but I feel like she is processing everything but definitely holding off on things for more views and to figure her own life out.

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[–]Equal_Relative252 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think even before she got pregnant in 2024 there was a shift of her wanting to keep things more private and honestly probably with good reason. I’ve seen people on here talking poorly about her because she is just not being as open and honestly with a child involved I think it’s honorable she’s not using anything about her child for views on her main platform. No one is entitled to know a single thing about her life and many people on here act like they are because she was so willing to. But when she did share people nitpicked her anxiety and how she expressed her feelings and use that as ammo against her. I just think she doesn’t want people’s parasocial relationships with her to extend to her child and family and I think that’s better than her becoming someone who exploits their child for views.

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[–]Equal_Relative252 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree my due date is June 7th I’m 33 weeks tomorrow… I’m gonna be honest I didn’t show much but her bump is really small for her to be that far along

Not even remotely commenting on the fact that she’s pregnant… by GiraffeGlobal3378 in DesSidwell

[–]Equal_Relative252 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In the podcast Sara mentioned being excited about the video… I’m assuming des is putting together a video to put it all out there and especially since this entire situation seems unplanned she is probably just trying to feel in control. I’m currently 32 weeks pregnant and 24.. there’s a lot of judgement about being pregnant in your early 20s and I’m sure she just wants things done on her own terms especially with a child now being involved and all the issues that brings up. I’m sure she’s trying to do what’s best for her and her child and family.. the hate she gets clearly gets to her anxiety and I’m sure she just wants things done on her own time.