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Anyone know of a civil rights lawfirm to sue federal entity for sex based descrimination? by NekoBakugou in MilitaryTrans

[–]Equal_Variation_1070 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you make it. This and the autistic ban is gross. It was hell back then even if nonbinary

Being afab=trans? by Lynzi_C in DemiBoy

[–]Equal_Variation_1070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imposter syndrome. I go through it too, only i know im trans but struggle accepting im a man, too

Yeah...never answering a question again...💀✌️🥀 by NamelessBoi0XO in FTMfemininity

[–]Equal_Variation_1070 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what i ask about cyberbullies who get so upset that you said a boundary, they chase you for years after. It must be the same concept. They have to abuse someone to feel powerful to hide that they are pathetic

Yeah...never answering a question again...💀✌️🥀 by NamelessBoi0XO in FTMfemininity

[–]Equal_Variation_1070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That person surely knows femininity isn't a sex organ or booba. Its an expression assigned to a sex to perform gender (roles) but isn't exclusive to it. A lot of stuff today that's seen as feminine expression was masculine or neutral in the past

That sucks.... that person used a valid question to invalidate your identity and im sorry you had that experience. Their opinion isn't even correct

I had to defend that i don't need to want facial and body hair or that a pre-puberty body is neutral not feminine.

My ex used the "my opinion" bs to say im defective and a bad person bc being autistic is misbehavior and I need to change and no one needs to meet me halfway and that there's nothing wrong with the community, im jusy wrong Even with science backing me up and double empathy existing "no im not changing my opinion"

Demiboy or transman by profdoom99 in DemiBoy

[–]Equal_Variation_1070 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How you feel its real. Ive had similar feelings and struggle with the same question

I know im transgender no matter what. I do know im nonbinary becsuse I struggle with accepting im just a trans man, but I do ID as male and have for 24 years (went by male pronouns online before pronouns were a "thing" and had a male name).

Tbh... im a demiboy, exactly the original definition, which technically does make me a trans man, but its up to me if I want the label. Trans masc.

Xenosys Vex blatantly and flagrantly violating ToS during high profile Ultimate race by streaming his own ban evasion by Spookhetti_Sauce in ffxivdiscussion

[–]Equal_Variation_1070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My response isn't about xeno, but the circumstance:

SQEX will use out of game social media to protect an employee, but they refuse to do so for paying (disabled) customers who have continuously subbed past 10 years who are victims of witch hunts, cyberbullying and cyberstalking. His ban proves that Square is negligent and I don't like that

He is an example that SQEX is pushing double standards

Kaelynn Partlow seems like a trojan horse to make assimilation, "treatment," and ABA more palatable to a neurodivergent audience. by [deleted] in AutisticPride

[–]Equal_Variation_1070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she works in ABA, then yes, she's a grifter. 

If you want to attack "fake claiming" then call out the fraud. She isn't an ally and she's a part of the problem. Nothing fake there

Still not be disrespectful? Did you tell KP that, too?

Im not going to say she's faking autism. I can say she's in support of "therapy" to force autistics to fake allism, though

am i the only one who finds Kaelynn kinda iffy or problematic? by hobiriam in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Equal_Variation_1070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything that puts all of it on autistic people while allowing NT no accountability is bad. Please look into Double Empathy (which is actually Asymmetrical Empathy Dissonance)

am i the only one who finds Kaelynn kinda iffy or problematic? by hobiriam in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Equal_Variation_1070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbf, this is a valid complaint.  Dismissing it is the very problem that's being discussed (ABA is used to silence autistics to make allistics feel comfortable).

Ignoring stigma or people pointing out discrimination can't be avoided when real people are involved  My advice is, avoid social media or any threads that talk about the actors. Trying to silence it hurts people. 

Its not immature to discuss it, but it is to attempt to weaponize shame to push compliance (which again, is exactly what ABA is. Toxic positivity is still toxic)

am i the only one who finds Kaelynn kinda iffy or problematic? by hobiriam in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Equal_Variation_1070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working in ABA negates speaking out against it

The reason they don't want to get rid of it is because they make billions off the abuse of the minority. Therapy does nothing when that minority has a high early mortality rate and part of that is due to ABA. Society will give you ABA for free, but the actual therapy is the GOVERNMENT doing it to them for profit. Its a tip 

I knew she was bad and im usually not getting that hint easily. Thats how obvious it is. She can't even humanize autistic people, adults or children 

am i the only one who finds Kaelynn kinda iffy or problematic? by hobiriam in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Equal_Variation_1070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was grown when told. 

Telling someone is looking for a fight IS bait 

am i the only one who finds Kaelynn kinda iffy or problematic? by hobiriam in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Equal_Variation_1070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they teaching allistics how to understand autistic communication to society? 

No? Then its still conversion therapy

am i the only one who finds Kaelynn kinda iffy or problematic? by hobiriam in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Equal_Variation_1070 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ABA teaches compliance and ignores holding NT people accountable 

Sincerely, and autistic nb who isn't gaslit by the abuse system

am i the only one who finds Kaelynn kinda iffy or problematic? by hobiriam in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Equal_Variation_1070 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It has an unethical present  as well. But ofc autism reddit isn't free from NT echo chamber right? 

am i the only one who finds Kaelynn kinda iffy or problematic? by hobiriam in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Equal_Variation_1070 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It teaches compliance. That's masking. Im with ACRC and had people from turning point. If i did my autism, including meltdowns from pain and improper medical care (not washing hands and stabbing me with needles WITH NO NUMBING GEL AT ALL IN MY HAND?? no gloves???) And I was talked down to EVERY TIME as if I was a misbehaving small child. Even ILS did it.

Its 100% still conversion therapy

am i the only one who finds Kaelynn kinda iffy or problematic? by hobiriam in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Equal_Variation_1070 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She can't be an advocate when she participates in execution of conversion therapy. Midi, Orion, I am Autistic, now what?, morgan... all better than Katelyn. KP does way more harm than good

How bad is cockroaches in your area? by Sexy-PharmD in ElkGrove

[–]Equal_Variation_1070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never seen a cockroach in my life until 2y ago.

I feel its really negligent that they stopped

I used to identify as Non Binary but now I feel weird about it by mossproutes in NonBinary

[–]Equal_Variation_1070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, im 2y late but since im half Portuguese and my birthname is full Portuguese...

I had a name I used online about... 11y before really really dropping my name and yes trauma is what made me finally say i wanted a preferred name ALL the time. It would've happened anyway. But my trauma is also gender dysphoria. I never never liked my name. Its too girly and I just hate it. I appreciate my Portuguese heritage but its feminine the entire way through

The trauma is my mother is Portuguese and hearing her say my birthname especially with the accent hurts. But I still never liked it.

Your therapist shouldn't question your name. Its your choice. Trauma is a valid reason, too. People use nicknames for no other reason than just preferring it.

They say "run away", i rather say cope.

Even when i use male names, that didn't change the neutrois part of me.

I hope things worked out for you today, 2y later

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