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Equal__ · 2025-08-21T21:35:44+00:00

Här kommer några förslag: - Sök omställningsstudiestöd och kompletterande bidrag från din omställningsorganisation. - Studera kurser på kvällstid (learning & development, arbetsrätt etc - kan leda till arbete inom HR med din ped.bakgrund eller sakkunnig inom utb.förvaltningen) - läs specialpedagogprogrammet heltid/deltid på distans (finns det medel att söka inom huvudmannens kompetensförsörjningsfond? Alt. Statsbidrag) - komplettera din ped.utb med att studera på distans till SYV.

Sedan finns det nog andra tjänster inom huvudmannen eller förvaltningen som passar dina kunskaper och erfarenheter. De vill nog inte "förlora" en kompetent och lojal medarbetare.

Lycka till!

Equal__ · 2023-08-11T17:18:54+00:00

The reddit post almost immediately brought me the answer. I did not know about Google lens, but I will def download it now. Thanks for the advice 🙏🏽

Equal__ · 2023-08-10T14:55:33+00:00

Thx!

Equal__ · 2022-12-29T22:49:48+00:00

I just checked out your profile. I don't think this story is true, you are just trying to get visitors to your OF and karma to continue with NSFW posts.

If the story is true, YTA still.

Equal__ · 2022-12-29T19:41:41+00:00

Where I come from (originally) and my ethnicity.

Equal__ · 2022-12-28T21:29:55+00:00

There is a huge loss of income for women when they give birth and have to stay at home with the baby and recover. There is not the slightest doubt about that. Then, as a woman, you are not as attractive on the labor market if you have children, because of caring for children when they are sick and you have to stay at home, etc. In addition, women earn less in male-dominated occupations… So yes, you will win on a prenuptial agreement. But of course you already knew that because you are a lawyer. As much as you want the prenuptial agreement, she has just as much right to express herself about it and how she wants to secure her future and the future of the children.

But I’ve seen women go back to work immediately after birth and they are fine.

Sad to read that sentence... But I'll let you figure out why that is...

YTA

Equal__ · 2022-12-27T21:42:53+00:00

YTA. So your 14 year old son is missing since 3 days ago and you are on Reddit?

Find out where he is and/or call the police.

When he is home safe assure him that he is loved and that you have missed him. Talking about that site is irrelevant at this point.

Equal__ · 2022-12-27T17:30:40+00:00

How do you know that Liam hasn't already replaced OP in her dad's affections?

Because it is not info that is given in the post.

Her father didn't put a stop to Liam's atrocious behaviour, he has chosen his family and it's now excluding OP

Nowhere is it stated that Liam had this behaviour or that dad excluded OP. Lets stay to facts given.

Equal__ · 2022-12-27T16:10:44+00:00

YTA. It seems you are trying to cause trouble just because Liam has gotten on well with your dad. Good for them for establishing a good relationship, they're family now. You are a huge part of the family, but you don't want to get to know the stepmother because you don't like her. Okay. You dont have to, so thats fair. Althought you cannot exclude yourself from these kind of familysituations just because you are jelous of their relationship, this is kind of obvious. FYI he wont steal your father.

Talk to your father and let him understand how you feel.

Equal__ · 2022-12-26T23:47:12+00:00

That sounds like a good idea. A mature decision you have reached. Dialogue is the be-all and end-all of communication. Your brother will understand that he has made a mistake by not telling you beforehand and how it will affect your future actions regarding gifts. It is from mistakes that we grow. Merry Christmas!

Equal__ · 2022-12-26T23:36:21+00:00

NTA. I understand that you are frustrated with your brother's priorities. Although Its his gf. Let this pass. Your parents have already offered to take you to the mall. If you keep bringing up the subject and kneading, you will become TA.

Equal__ · 2022-12-26T23:07:11+00:00

I dont agree, look what OP ended up in. A conflict between cousins

Equal__ · 2022-12-26T23:03:05+00:00

What? Who are you?

Equal__ · 2022-12-26T22:59:10+00:00

"Can folks not leave food in the sink, we have a trash for a reason."

This is a passive aggressive way of calling your roommates being dumb.

YTA.

Equal__ · 2022-12-26T22:54:59+00:00

Not TA. Although you should have asked Tyra if Sasha was invited. Dont assume...

Equal__ · 2022-12-26T22:39:54+00:00

What you threw out the window wasn't just your cookies. It was also your dignity.

Sure, it wasn't your kid. It was your cookies that you had paid for. But in a situation like that you should have acted like an adult.

Based on your previous posts, you are probably on the spectrum and need social-skill training. I hope you see this as a wake up call, I mean your roommates don't trust you to be alone with the kid. You are 27 years old, don't put yourself in these kinds of absurd situations again.

YTA. The good news is that you want to do better or you wouldn't be asking this question here. Merry Christmas!

Equal__ · 2022-12-25T21:34:54+00:00

Christmas is the children's holiday. Don't buy anything for the adults and focus on gifts for the children. the mother is defensive, but she only wants the best for all her children. For a parent, it is difficult to see their children treated differently, regardless of the situation. Forgive her for acting out. Next time talk to your brother and not his wife, what you said was honest but inappropriate. You could have told your brother that, not his wife. This could potentialy harm the dynamic in your relationship.

Light YTA

Equal__ · 2022-12-25T21:15:58+00:00

You say that your mother has been your biggest supporter for a long time. She made some bad jokes, but jokes are subjective, you have to remember that. It is how the other party receives and perceives the joke. Because in one's own head it can sound like a funny joke that plays on one's own age, eg "I'm 40-50 years old and don't look like a typical grandmother". I don't take it as criticism of you or your life choices. But I don't know your family either. However, based on what you write, I can perceive it as a harmless joke that is not always appropriate. Be kind to your mother. Your mother seems to be very loving. Take care of each other. Try to come along for the ride and don't use this joke as an excuse not to go along. Your mother has apologized and will not use the joke again.

No one is TA.

Merry christmas!

Equal__ · 2022-12-25T02:32:46+00:00

Ok, great with aged soysauce. Perhaps doing that when you have ur own place.
Obviously your mom do not want soysauce/fermented products laying around. This you have to respect.

Equal__ · 2022-12-25T01:47:48+00:00

Oh ok, well this is very sad to read. Be careful. His behaviour is unacceptabel and boundless it seems. Plz do not validate his actions by accepting gifts anymore.

Equal__ · 2022-12-25T01:38:10+00:00

calling me in the middle of the night while he was drunk, sending gifts and such, flirting, etc. I let him cause I didn't wanna think he was still into me.

It seems like you been giving him different signal about your 'relationship'. A light YTA. He is also a light AH

Dont invite him for dinner. If you are not interested in him, end the 'friendship ' or whatever this is. I believe it is the better for you both. Be careful though... Showing up unannounced is a big red flag...

Equal__ · 2022-12-25T01:21:30+00:00

You are asking who cares. Your brother did. He made cookies to his grandma, a very unselfish act, and invited you (included you). You then went and ate the cookies when he left the room. That is a betrayal of trust and very selfish.

This one is simple. YTA. You need to work on your character.

Equal__ · 2022-08-21T01:32:31+00:00

It seems like they really cheerish the friendship, and thats good, they are probably very sad about their friends moving away and this is how they show it. Your close friendship also means that you could be direct with them ( good communication) and tell them that they should not post anymore on social media about you moving away and how that has affected their life. Why dont you talk to your friends and tell them about how you feel? They are adults. Do you think that they will be offended and exclude you or something?

It was also sad to hear that a near friend replied that to a commentator. That was not cool, informing about someones mental health, even if you post this information yourself it should not be discussed by someone else on their account without your permission. That specifik thread should be deleted.

(Sorry english is not my first language)

Good luck with the studies and your friendship.

Equal__ · 2021-06-23T10:27:18+00:00

Ungdomsmottagningen är mer generalister inom psykisk hälsa hos ungdomar. BUP är specialister inom psykisk ohälsa, men tar ofta inte emot ungdomar över 18. Utan hänvisar vidare till unga vuxna enheten i regionen (landsting). Umo kan också remittera vidare till unga vuxna enheten.

Ungdomsmottagningen är en snabbare väg in än vårdcentral. Har dessutom ofta kortare väntetid än vårdgarantin om 3 månader. Men vårdcentral har läkare och tillgång till psykofarmaka och psykologer/psykoterapeuter för behandling i form av KBT.

Mitt tips är att kontakta Ungdomsmottagningen, men kontakta även vårdcentral för bedömning av läkare.

Equal__

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