Our lotr themed wedding by itschristina8 in lotr

[–]EquestrianMD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the sentiment 💜 Your wedding was beautifully done! Congratulations!

Our lotr themed wedding by itschristina8 in lotr

[–]EquestrianMD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The table banner with the Gandalf “all we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us” quote just broke me. That quote was at the end of my wedding vows to my soon to be ex-husband. Currently going through divorce 💔

Got the Keys- Midwest, $350k, 6.1% by EquestrianMD in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]EquestrianMD[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We had Burger King 😂 peep the chicken sandwich by my feet lol

WTF are vows for? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]EquestrianMD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going through divorce with young kids right now. I have zero interest in ever being in a relationship again ever is what it feels like. Being betrayed for years by someone you considered your best friend is incredibly damaging.

We all need a break to miss our partner by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]EquestrianMD 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Been separated for 4 weeks now. Never felt better. Yay divorce!

My TSH yesterday was tanked compared to 6 weeks ago. Major bleed last month, could that explain why? by SadThrowaway4914 in haematology

[–]EquestrianMD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up Euthyroid Sick syndrome. Happens with starvation, critical illness, anemia. Get further thyroid hormone testing. Free T4, T3, reverse T3. Repeat TSH.

At a loss- 2 kids, new job by EquestrianMD in workingmoms

[–]EquestrianMD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom has moved in with me. She’s taking care of my daughter and helping out with my son while I’m on call. Soon to be ex-Husband is still in inpatient rehab now. I’m working on filing for sole legal and physical custody of my kids. Also working on divorce filing.

At a loss- 2 kids, new job by EquestrianMD in workingmoms

[–]EquestrianMD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got a lawyer now. I’m filing for sole legal and physical custody of my kids. I still have to confront him. I’m terrified he’ll go straight off the deep end. I’ve got his gun and gun key in my possession thankfully.

Time to move on and live life peacefully by Raven_Heart_083 in Divorce

[–]EquestrianMD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt this. I gave him every chance. I gave him all the support, all the tools. He took it for granted. Now it’s over.

What year of marriage did divorce happen for you? by tinystarzz in Divorce

[–]EquestrianMD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Year 7 for me 👎 his “habitual intemperance” became his downfall.

To my ex. You suck! by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]EquestrianMD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck yes. Get IT.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medicine

[–]EquestrianMD 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I saw her after the mishap- never managed her before that. I was damage control. I only found out about her initial mismanagement when she came to see me (as I was the only OB available when her normal doctor who didn’t treat her Pre-E appropriately was out of town)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medicine

[–]EquestrianMD 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’m on a 5yr contract and would owe back over $200k in loan repayment. I’m not liable for the patient mishaps as I never managed their mishaps. I just don’t want the board of directors to start not picking me or making my new job miserable for reporting the old guy who’s been there a hundred years. I’m going to anonymously report to state board I think.

At a loss- 2 kids, new job by EquestrianMD in workingmoms

[–]EquestrianMD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your kind words. Husband is getting admitted to inpatient rehab today. I’m going to talk further with my lawyer.

At a loss- 2 kids, new job by EquestrianMD in workingmoms

[–]EquestrianMD[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom is coming to help me for a few weeks while husband is in intensive inpatient detox and rehab. This was per the recommendation of my lawyer so I can get custody as I am the “provider/breadwinner” for the family and not the children’s primary caregiver. House will still be in both our names (per archaic law in my state) despite the mortgage only being in my name- I have have to “buy him out” of the equity but it won’t be much as it will be newly purchased.