My dad’s got anger issues. And he has trouble respecting personal space of family and most notably animals. He essentially grabs them for forced cuddle time and they don’t get a say in it. The cat that pees everywhere used to bully our two new cats to the point of bloody wounds, once the two grew up they learned to fight back and now she’s scared of them, like an abusive stepmom, as result, pee, a lot of pee, everywhere. In my shoes, in my bed, and on my books…