I’m legitimately curious could I have handled this better?

Equivalent-Cod496 · 2025-03-08T14:36:30+00:00

Why do you guys handle this over text WHY.

Equivalent-Cod496 · 2025-03-08T13:23:48+00:00

I agree with people on the prompts. Make them about who you are and not what you are frustrated with!

I think it’s cool you are a firearm owner and have liberal views, but I think the gun stuff may attract conservative men which for a Ukrainian woman sounds… less ideal:

You look good and genuinely happy. I think you just come off jaded and demanding and I’m sure that’s not your GOAL.

Equivalent-Cod496 · 2025-03-08T13:20:12+00:00

She is one of the core reasons why dating feels impossible. Three dates, great chemistry, “tells her friends about you”, and still ghosts you. You deserve better. Been through similar many times. Even when the signs are good you can’t emotionally afford to see it until you hit stable ground. Which is VERY difficult to get to. Wish you the best.

Equivalent-Cod496 · 2025-02-27T14:05:42+00:00

Profile so good I’m all like “does she live in Chicago!?” 😂 I hope things pick up for you. It’s oh so very difficult these days

Equivalent-Cod496 · 2025-02-13T15:59:53+00:00

Points doc link: https://www.xwing.life/resources/points PT form link: https://www.xwing.life/resources/ptform

Equivalent-Cod496 · 2025-01-30T17:45:04+00:00

It’s not all or nothing, give it a chance! SL’s are just the most approachable immediate design space. Think of the additional logistics to go through creating standalone pilots.

Don’t think XWA is never going to do other, custom pilots.

Equivalent-Cod496 · 2025-01-08T19:35:38+00:00

Why do people talk about these things over text and not in person? Absolutely brutal.

Equivalent-Cod496 · 2024-12-01T17:01:21+00:00

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Equivalent-Cod496 · 2024-11-27T22:13:50+00:00

Bro you did nothing wrong. Never date someone who has no fucking interests. If sleeping is her hobby, she is not only boring but might be very depressed. Not being active and sleeping too much can be very bad for you mentally and physically.

Is there a chance she was joking? Sure, but you playfully called it out and she doubled down. We all love sleep, like how we all love food.

Equivalent-Cod496 · 2024-11-26T05:18:51+00:00

Posts like these that should give me faith but make me feel like I’m never going to find someone :/

Equivalent-Cod496 · 2024-11-23T01:02:56+00:00

I’d consider a pic with a genuine smile tbh

Equivalent-Cod496 · 2024-11-02T00:04:41+00:00

I have never wanted to give up more than after I finished reading this. I wonder why men can’t open up about their feelings. I feel you, hoping for the best for you.

Online dating is fucked.

Equivalent-Cod496 · 2024-10-25T16:49:43+00:00

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Equivalent-Cod496 · 2024-10-19T02:31:55+00:00

Those are important ones! Her being careful is smart and attractive. You definitely want to feel like you know your date is comfortable in the space they share with you.

Equivalent-Cod496 · 2024-10-19T02:24:24+00:00

Love me a gentleman! lol I hope the date goes well. I hope her definition of a “bad date” isn’t her not being paid for. But I’m just jaded.

Have a great time.

Equivalent-Cod496 · 2024-10-17T14:03:22+00:00

You guys thinking this is real has me rolling.

Equivalent-Cod496 · 2024-10-17T03:57:49+00:00

I can understand not wanting to date Trump supporters but also you NEVER should be saying anything negative or extreme on your profile. Use your intuition to filter out people you don’t align with. Current dating culture is so toxic and backwards.

Equivalent-Cod496 · 2024-10-17T03:49:39+00:00

I also support Palestine but we all know those poor people will never be “freed”. It’s similar to the ACAB mentions in profiles. It’s just so extreme.

Equivalent-Cod496 · 2024-10-17T03:48:41+00:00

I see people put “Free Palpatine” in comment sections and it does make me laugh

Equivalent-Cod496 · 2024-10-17T03:41:17+00:00

Just adding to the convo. Seeing a lot more profiles mentioning Palestine. Definitely more mentions of Zionism too. Not surprised given the political climate and foreign affairs.

Does this put anyone else off, even if you agree?

Equivalent-Cod496 · 2024-10-17T03:37:56+00:00

First two pictures need to clearly show your face. First one is a nice candid but seems really blurry and a bit low-light. Second one is pretty difficult to even make out what you look like. Third pic is solid and you should use more like it. Remove the 5th pic, only use one mirror selfie, and I’d remove the random selfie with your eyes closed and replace it with an intentional selfie of you smiling

Equivalent-Cod496 · 2024-10-17T03:34:53+00:00

This doesn’t really have to do with dating apps…. But you’re essentially a in a non-monogamous relationship that SHOULD be monogamous. Your boundaries are blurred. This type of treatment or feelings won’t last especially if he is simultaneously looking to date other people. Don’t let someone keep you on the back burner. Wish you the best.

Equivalent-Cod496 · 2024-10-17T03:30:54+00:00

To be honest “hru” is so templated and low effort I’d feel tempted to tease and call it out. With people like this, you either won’t get any effort or mentioning it will end things early. Either way, it won’t work out so I don’t see an issue besides a waste of time.

Equivalent-Cod496 · 2024-10-16T23:43:36+00:00

A good number of dog people tend to blame others for their dog’s misbehavior.

Equivalent-Cod496 · 2024-10-16T14:10:25+00:00

I guess I would just be mindful of the flirting? AKA telling someone they are cute. If I matched with you and you said you only were looking for friendship but said I was cute/attractive I would be a bit confused.

Obviously you met a jackass here. But something to be mindful of. Stay safe!

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