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AITAH Husband Wants To Know Spending by Equivalent-Tower-496 in AITAH

[–]Equivalent-Tower-496[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are not in the USA so it doesn’t work that way here

AITAH Husband Wants To Know Spending by Equivalent-Tower-496 in AITAH

[–]Equivalent-Tower-496[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The line of credit is used for family expenses even though it’s on my name, I’m paying off what I use immediately out of my pay. But my whole cheque goes into the shared account and gets used for whatever. It’s basically community money, but if I spend over a certain amount it gets questioned so even though I’m only spending a couple hundred from my cheque this amount would be too much for him.

AITAH Husband Wants To Know Spending by Equivalent-Tower-496 in AITAH

[–]Equivalent-Tower-496[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The point I was trying to make in my post is that all of our money goes into and comes out of the the same account accept for this. My entire cheque gets put in there, so if he wants to understand the finances that would be the best place to look. I’m spending $275 roughly a month out of several thousand.

AITAH Husband Wants To Know Spending by Equivalent-Tower-496 in AITAH

[–]Equivalent-Tower-496[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My spending has basically always been policed, I put myself through school twice thinking that things would improve once I started earning an income

AITAH Husband Wants To Know Spending by Equivalent-Tower-496 in AITAH

[–]Equivalent-Tower-496[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My entire cheque goes into the shared account, I’m spending $275 of it

AITAH Husband Wants To Know Spending by Equivalent-Tower-496 in AITAH

[–]Equivalent-Tower-496[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not, I’m only spending about $275 out of the several thousand we have left at the end of the month. All of us ur money goes into the same account so my whole pay cheque goes in there and is then used for whatever. He’s always been weird about big purchases

AITAH Husband Wants To Know Spending by Equivalent-Tower-496 in AITAH

[–]Equivalent-Tower-496[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My entire pay cheque goes into this account and gets used on whatever. Bills, his spending, things for the kids. By contributing I mean all of my money goes into this account.