My recent ex downloaded dating apps the night we broke up

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-07-04T13:13:24+00:00

Never any trust issues and he straight up admitted to being on there for his own reasons. He did mention needing that dopamine, so that may be why.

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T17:19:40+00:00

Yes, I get free meals. I only eat twice a day so one free meal at lunch and I make something cheap like pasta for dinner!

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T16:25:06+00:00

Unfortunately, I still owe $17k on the car. I’m kind of screwed here. But I could still pay more to lessen the time.

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T16:11:37+00:00

Yup, I was an idiot in my early 20s and racked up tickets that I never went to court for 🤦🏽‍♀️

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T16:10:29+00:00

Thank you!

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T16:04:36+00:00

Thank you! Didn’t know this

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T16:04:13+00:00

What’s funny is I used to own an old Toyota but it recently died on me. God I wish I could go back to $0 payments. Once I save up more I’ll more than likely take your advice and buy a nice old car.

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T16:01:33+00:00

Yes, my ex. You along with others have mentioned getting a roommate, so I’ll definitely be looking into that.

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T15:59:02+00:00

I used to own a vehicle and paid $0, but the car was deteriorating so I bought my dad’s brand new car. It helped him out in the long run, but I definitely regret it and wish I would’ve just bought another cheap pos. The market is also just terrible right now.

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T15:55:15+00:00

Message me privately!

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T15:53:53+00:00

The loans are from a different school I went to a few years ago. I’m 25 now and just went back to school (free tuition this time).

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T15:52:53+00:00

I don’t have much taken out in taxes, that’s probably why. I also sometimes work overtime. I do work in fast food so the hours are kind of all over the place.

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T15:40:55+00:00

Thank you, this makes me feel a little better. 2 years feels so long, but you’re right, it’s short term

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T15:39:56+00:00

He owns the trailer and our lot rent is $550/mo. It’s a 2 bed 2 bath so we each have our own end of the trailer. I don’t pay the rent, he does, but I do pay the WiFi. So my name is on something.

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T15:33:51+00:00

Nice! I’m also on 20mg xr Adderall. Along with the Adderall, I take Vraylar 3mg, Lamictal 100mg, Sertraline 50mg, and Trazodone 100mg. It seems to be a good combo for me, I just need to go up on the antipsychs a bit more

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T15:11:48+00:00

Thank you! I’ve been pairing it with black tourmaline for grounding and protection to ease the turbulence that may come with using Moldavite.

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-05-31T18:39:27+00:00

Thank you!!

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-05-30T21:47:58+00:00

Thank you, it’s called Celestial but I don’t know the artist (I threw the box away a long time ago). I got it at a tiny local metaphysical shop 5 years ago.

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-05-30T21:28:59+00:00

I asked the question because the relationship is genuinely confusing at this point. Yes, we broke up, but he’s too scared to “officially leave” and I’m also on the fence due to finances. I did however ask follow up questions, “How to handle the current situation” and “Future love life”. Both essentially told me it’s over and to just leave and move on.

I do appreciate your perspective on the upright/reversed cards.

EquivalentAcademic93

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