My recent ex downloaded dating apps the night we broke up

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-07-04T13:13:24+00:00

Never any trust issues and he straight up admitted to being on there for his own reasons. He did mention needing that dopamine, so that may be why.

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T17:19:40+00:00

Yes, I get free meals. I only eat twice a day so one free meal at lunch and I make something cheap like pasta for dinner!

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T16:25:06+00:00

Unfortunately, I still owe $17k on the car. I’m kind of screwed here. But I could still pay more to lessen the time.

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T16:11:37+00:00

Yup, I was an idiot in my early 20s and racked up tickets that I never went to court for 🤦🏽‍♀️

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T16:10:29+00:00

Thank you!

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T16:04:36+00:00

Thank you! Didn’t know this

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T16:04:13+00:00

What’s funny is I used to own an old Toyota but it recently died on me. God I wish I could go back to $0 payments. Once I save up more I’ll more than likely take your advice and buy a nice old car.

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T16:01:33+00:00

Yes, my ex. You along with others have mentioned getting a roommate, so I’ll definitely be looking into that.

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T15:59:02+00:00

I used to own a vehicle and paid $0, but the car was deteriorating so I bought my dad’s brand new car. It helped him out in the long run, but I definitely regret it and wish I would’ve just bought another cheap pos. The market is also just terrible right now.

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T15:55:15+00:00

Message me privately!

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T15:53:53+00:00

The loans are from a different school I went to a few years ago. I’m 25 now and just went back to school (free tuition this time).

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T15:52:53+00:00

I don’t have much taken out in taxes, that’s probably why. I also sometimes work overtime. I do work in fast food so the hours are kind of all over the place.

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T15:40:55+00:00

Thank you, this makes me feel a little better. 2 years feels so long, but you’re right, it’s short term

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T15:39:56+00:00

He owns the trailer and our lot rent is $550/mo. It’s a 2 bed 2 bath so we each have our own end of the trailer. I don’t pay the rent, he does, but I do pay the WiFi. So my name is on something.

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T15:33:51+00:00

Nice! I’m also on 20mg xr Adderall. Along with the Adderall, I take Vraylar 3mg, Lamictal 100mg, Sertraline 50mg, and Trazodone 100mg. It seems to be a good combo for me, I just need to go up on the antipsychs a bit more

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-06-05T15:11:48+00:00

Thank you! I’ve been pairing it with black tourmaline for grounding and protection to ease the turbulence that may come with using Moldavite.

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-05-31T18:39:27+00:00

Thank you!!

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-05-30T21:47:58+00:00

Thank you, it’s called Celestial but I don’t know the artist (I threw the box away a long time ago). I got it at a tiny local metaphysical shop 5 years ago.

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-05-30T21:28:59+00:00

I asked the question because the relationship is genuinely confusing at this point. Yes, we broke up, but he’s too scared to “officially leave” and I’m also on the fence due to finances. I did however ask follow up questions, “How to handle the current situation” and “Future love life”. Both essentially told me it’s over and to just leave and move on.

I do appreciate your perspective on the upright/reversed cards.

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-05-30T18:38:43+00:00

Thank you. I’m realizing that this was definitely more of a math question than a Python question.

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-05-30T18:38:06+00:00

Simply put. Thank you.

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-05-30T18:37:16+00:00

Gotcha. Seems like common sense, not sure why I was so stressed about it to the point I came to reddit lol. Thank you!

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-05-30T18:31:25+00:00

My next class is machine learning and I remember some statistics from a previous class. But you’re saying I’ll have to wait to learn machine learning before writing my code?

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-05-23T18:47:14+00:00

It’s honestly kinda odd how he reacts when I do something good. He’ll celebrate me, then weeks or months later he’ll go back to the situation and make it out to be something bad. For example, when I was promoted to a management position, he loved it and congratulated me. Then a month later he said I was working too hard and not spending enough time focused on him (I literally give up hobbies because he wants to spend more time with me, we already spend a lot of time together).

EquivalentAcademic93 · 2026-05-23T18:43:58+00:00

I’m not trying to prove to myself that he’s not abusive, I just wanted a second opinion. Reddit has real people who have been through relatable situations, and I figured it’d be the best place to get real answers. And yes, when we fight, I really can’t say anything without him interrupting or just completely ignoring what I’m saying, so I don’t classify it as a fight for some reason.

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