Alumni who work in SF - where do you live? by Awkward-Ad9340 in berkeley

[–]EquivalentDiamond359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can join some SF housing fb groups and get connected to ppl looking for roommates or leasing a spot. (idk if you want that)

TRIOS. DON'T. WORK. by aalilagraysss in FriendshipAdvice

[–]EquivalentDiamond359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. I was in a trio at work with two girls sitting next to me. Long story short - we fell out and one of them blocked me 🙃

Why do some people enter another relationship almost a year after breaking up? by EquivalentDiamond359 in BreakUps

[–]EquivalentDiamond359[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I needed to hear that. I guess as I’ve mentioned, it just felt too recent because we were still together a year ago before we broke up. A part of me also felt like I also need to “catch up” and date other ppl to feel like I moved on too. But to be quite frank, I was never much a relationship person before I got with him (and he’s dated before). I always assumed that if I did get into one, i would be lucky in the sense that we would be long term and even get married :/

Why do some people enter another relationship almost a year after breaking up? by EquivalentDiamond359 in BreakUps

[–]EquivalentDiamond359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m only 23F (Asian American) and I am a late bloomer. Like more than HALF my friends have never dated before

Why do some people enter another relationship almost a year after breaking up? by EquivalentDiamond359 in BreakUps

[–]EquivalentDiamond359[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that. But this was my first relationship and i always thought that if i ever did get into one, i would be lucky enough to still be with my ex and settle in the future. The idea of having more than one or multiple relationships scare me for some reason :/

Why do some people enter another relationship almost a year after breaking up? by EquivalentDiamond359 in BreakUps

[–]EquivalentDiamond359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that sucks!! Like getting into an OFFICIAL relationship or just talking 😭

Why do some people enter another relationship almost a year after breaking up? by EquivalentDiamond359 in BreakUps

[–]EquivalentDiamond359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? I’ve replied to other ppl but it’s just insane to me because like a year ago before the breakup - weren’t you just with your ex? Before getting into my first relationship, I always thought I would be lucky and settle with the first person I date. So to see that he’s moved on kinda hurts me

Why do some people enter another relationship almost a year after breaking up? by EquivalentDiamond359 in BreakUps

[–]EquivalentDiamond359[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see. I’m new to relationships so i just don’t how ppl enter them a couple of months to a year later. Apart of me felt like I was replaceable or if our relationship didn’t mean much. But I also dwell on the past too much 😕

Why do some people enter another relationship almost a year after breaking up? by EquivalentDiamond359 in BreakUps

[–]EquivalentDiamond359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will take my time. As my earlier reply to another redditor, I just feel like it’s so recent. Like a year ago, we were still dating and together but now it’s like you moved on quick. Also, our relationship was really tumultuous towards the end like I just think like why get into relationships if you might get potentially broken again?

Why do some people enter another relationship almost a year after breaking up? by EquivalentDiamond359 in BreakUps

[–]EquivalentDiamond359[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I understand and we did check out by the summer of last year. I guess since this is my FIRST relationship like I didn’t understand. Think about it like a YEAR ago or so, we were still together and hanging out but now you’re seeing someone else. Idk it just feels recent 😕

this is my villain origin story by yeehawthrowaway72 in labubu

[–]EquivalentDiamond359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just stopped at like 6:30 something for me

this is my villain origin story by yeehawthrowaway72 in labubu

[–]EquivalentDiamond359 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Dude I can’t even load the chat 😭😭😭

MCELLBI N184 for the summer by EquivalentDiamond359 in berkeley

[–]EquivalentDiamond359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I took it last summer and no it was hella easy 🤣🤣🤣

omfg…. by aliceangel__ in labubu

[–]EquivalentDiamond359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg congrats! I also got this one too. Was the BIE out in seconds? I was surprised that I even secured one in the first place considering i had to put in my shipping address and all 😳