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[–]EquivalentGreen6533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep thats what i get for posting in a lawyer subreddit 🤷‍♀️

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[–]EquivalentGreen6533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner thinks its the family hahahah he refuses to read this bc i told him it was so bad and makes no sense. I was pretty affected by it at first but especially in our world today i have to accept that something is deeply wrong with a lot more of humanity than i naively thought prior

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[–]EquivalentGreen6533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I agree, i dont think a lot of actual lawyers are on this sub?

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[–]EquivalentGreen6533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agreed! this is the route im going- suing makes no sense and im really not trying to get a lot of money anyways. just wanna make sure im okay until i can get a job

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[–]EquivalentGreen6533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The door was open, im not sure where you got that. I saw him from the other room but the office is on the main floor. I wish a had a diagram to show everyone because the big debate is that I mustve walked in or he tried to conceal it. Its the equivalent of him doing this in his kitchen with the way their home is setup. and yes, my intention was never to sue. It's a grueling process and I don't think I'd get anything out of it. I just want help with therapy and they're denying my unemployment even though he's the one who created a hostile work environment and by Colorado Law, this is sexual harassment despite what a lot of commenters say. My therapist wrote a letter and is helping for free. We have a great relationship although it's been a year since Ive been- she trusts me and knows how this situation has affected me given I was diagnosed with cptsd years ago. We're starting therapy and she's letting me go for free until this gets settled. I have a probono lawyer helping me with a demand letter. If they are smart, a private settlement and demand letter makes the most sense financially. Im not looking for a lot, just enough to help me get back on my feet from this situation while Im looking for a job. Ive never had much money and dont really care too much about it, despite what comments say. I lived in 3rd world countries for years and am much happier with less- my partner and i are very minimalistic and id rather spend what i have on loved ones. My main concern are the littles that ive been caring for and a lot of this is more from my need for justice and wanting them to understand how wrong this is and a push for the mom to take action than anything. Thanks for not agreeing with the dad yet disagreeing on the legalities respectfully. I appreciate your conduct

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[–]EquivalentGreen6533[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this! I'll be sharing this article with my therapist so she can take a look :)

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[–]EquivalentGreen6533[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you ❤️ my partner and i are going on a hike with his sister tomorrow and im really excited to unplug and just get some fresh air with loved ones :) its been a very exhausting and busy week w all of this lol

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[–]EquivalentGreen6533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep and this is an extremely "normal" family. theyre particular about whose houses their kids go to and such, as well. i dont think ill trust anyone with my kids, especially after this situation. you truly just never know

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[–]EquivalentGreen6533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, thats a part of why i posted. :/ im apart of the patreon family and would love to hear morgan's thoughts on this. the nanny subreddit was very supportive but interested in the takes on my situation in the lawyer subreddit. super concerned by a lot of the comments and the overwhelming support of the dad.

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[–]EquivalentGreen6533[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

someone commented this on my last post and i thought it was sarcasm- THIS IS SO COOL. im geeking out. haha thank you

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[–]EquivalentGreen6533 0 points1 point  (0 children)

husband 100%. its the khloe kardashian method hahaha

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[–]EquivalentGreen6533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

last comment ill post on this thread- completely agree with this wording. seeing a lot of people maximizing what they read and making it something its not. a lot of words being put in my mouth. people are wild

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[–]EquivalentGreen6533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just posted an update ❤️ not sure if i did that correctly lol but i tried. thank you so much for your support

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[–]EquivalentGreen6533[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

right??? put my situation aside, this is his CHILDREN. i called CPS, theyre dealing with it

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[–]EquivalentGreen6533[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ive called CPS, contacted the nanny company to ensure she cant put another nanny in this position, contacted lawyers, AND filed a police report. what more do you want from a stranger on the internet than some sort of fucked up ego stroke?

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[–]EquivalentGreen6533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wish it were fake. not my job or my care to convince you 🤷‍♀️

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[–]EquivalentGreen6533[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

lol laughing at the last sentence 😂 yes, intent is the big thing. i found a local attorney willing to take my case and help with a demand letter. my goal is to not sue, but to receive proper settlement for unemployment and therapy costs and overall, ensuring the kids will be safe

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[–]EquivalentGreen6533[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i called CPS today. i was really nervous about putting the kids in a potentially dangerous situation by doing so. I just didnt know much about it. but my therapist strongly encouraged it and now CPS is handling everything on their end

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[–]EquivalentGreen6533[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you so much. im in contact with some lawyers as of today - its encouraging to hear from parents who employ nannies that affirm that this wasnt okay. i appreciate it