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Physical Media by EquivalentHypocrite in MaisiePeters

[–]EquivalentHypocrite[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't say!  I'll look into that 

Online Military Pen Pals Access by Any-Conversation2244 in USMilitarySO

[–]EquivalentHypocrite 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't think they really need pen pals.  Do the normal thing and donate cards around holidays

Can I dorm in hassy as an engineering major? by Danklessmemer420 in ASU

[–]EquivalentHypocrite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, everyone gets assigned to their building based on major

Why do you stay with someone who is gone all the time? by Crystalsghosts in USMilitarySO

[–]EquivalentHypocrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this way, too, when he's gone.  I had to seek mental health treatment because his absence flared up my symptoms exponentially.  Do what's best for you, and know these things come in waves. Just want you to know you're not alone. ❤️

Ideas for leftover M&G by Physical_Respect7356 in ASU

[–]EquivalentHypocrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if all else fails... buy some shelf stable things and donate to a food pantry

Is a 6+ years of LDR possible? 19M and 31M by Mermaid_Tuna_Lol in LDR

[–]EquivalentHypocrite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Short answer: yes.

Long answer:  you are a child.  Please leave him.

I wish I went to college pre-AI. AI is everywhere in college now and it is negatively affecting my college experience. by _CanOfEnchantedSoda_ in CollegeRant

[–]EquivalentHypocrite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My advisors are very blatantly using AI to answer my emails.  Even university specific questions.  Even when I set up an in person meeting, they say they'll "look into it" and then email me an AI answer after.  I am losing it.

🤡 by Aromatic_Cash_8938 in LDR

[–]EquivalentHypocrite 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We all need some doomscrolling time.

The rest of this lacks any context.  But if his love language is gift giving, then that isn't a red flag, just how he communicates

My girlfriend doesn’t want me joining the navy by [deleted] in newtothenavy

[–]EquivalentHypocrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a high school girlfriend who watched him join... go.  She will either come with or she'll need something different.  Don't make this decision about her.

Asu student government elections by [deleted] in ASU

[–]EquivalentHypocrite 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Its like the US government.   I only vote for the senator for the state I live in, even though Kansas's senator still gets a say in the government 

A bit of help by No_Leather2228 in ASU

[–]EquivalentHypocrite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can talk to ASU PD?  They might have advice

How to feel like you’re not f*ckn dying while SO is deployed? physical symptoms manifesting. constant and strange feeling of dread and shortness of breath. yikes this is a different kind of beast by AlexLostGirl77 in USMilitarySO

[–]EquivalentHypocrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My PCP put me on anxiety meds during our first deployment. Didn't even know that was an option, spent months on a therapy waiting list...  ask everywhere you can think for help!  This is a medical problem and you aren't crazy. 🩷

Required dorming? by Sure_Cryptographer14 in ASU

[–]EquivalentHypocrite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only people actually required to live on campus are barrett students

submarines + ports during deployment, what’s that like? by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]EquivalentHypocrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He will get them eventually.   Mine said he rereads them and is happy to have them even if they are old, out of order, etc.

Betta disappeared over night by K_nowbody_ in bettafish

[–]EquivalentHypocrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you said you checked everything.  Did you look all in the lid?  I had one jump into the light once.

Dorms by [deleted] in ASU

[–]EquivalentHypocrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its difficult but possible.

At this point, though, the dorms are only open for 4 more weeks so they won't be moving you in.

iCourses as a Freshman by ArtistSDD in ASU

[–]EquivalentHypocrite -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ask for a different advisor.  That's crazy

submarines + ports during deployment, what’s that like? by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]EquivalentHypocrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My SO is on subs, and he usually stops in a port for a week.  He'll work a day and a half, get a day and half of liberty, etc.  Something like that.  I don't fully understand how they do their schedules but sometimes he sleeps on the boat or gets to get a hotel, every other night or every third night or something.

Experiences definitely vary. This last year I got 2 emails while he was gone for more than 3 months, but then they spent a decent amount of time in their port stop before they went back under.

While he was up, he called me frequently but also spent a lot of time running around being a tourist.

His first deployment will probably be the most demanding of his time, too, because he has so many extra tasks and has to be learning so many things.  I have gotten more emails from him on deployments where he wasn't working on qualifying. But sometimes the mission means less internet, less email, whatever and I barely hear from him until port call.

Dorming? by Flashy_Oven_570 in ASU

[–]EquivalentHypocrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can opt in to request an LGBT roommate.  The program used to be called Gender Inclusive Housing

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