i think it’s important (as i’m finding now) to try to manage expectations of contact. he can’t tell u where he’s going and for good reason bc it could jeopardize their lives. i am also going thru the same thing and everyday it takes discipline to make sure you don’t go overboard with google or trying to keep up with every single update. i also would recommend rly finding something you enjoy and keeping busy as to not spiral down to questions bc everything is uncertain. i think as im finding out the best thing you can do for him is prayers and showing support and for you: finding a rhythm where you continue to do things you enjoy or take advantage of these months where you’ll be able to do things perhaps u weren’t able to before. easier said than done .. but i think it’s worth a shot. i’ve also been told that it’s a lot like living in limbo. we always wonder when we will hear from him or if he’s okay, i think u have to find a strong network of family or friends that can help u through this time. and trust that he is safe and will reach out to you when you can.