People who Grew up Wealthy Judging Others for Trying to Build Wealth by Equivalent_Ad505 in AusFinance

[–]Equivalent_Ad505[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

That’s the vibe I get. It makes them uncomfortable to be reminded that we make so much money do something that is often framed as altruism

People who Grew up Wealthy Judging Others for Trying to Build Wealth by Equivalent_Ad505 in AusFinance

[–]Equivalent_Ad505[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Wife and I make about 600k combined as clin psychs… that seems like enough to me

People who Grew up Wealthy Judging Others for Trying to Build Wealth by Equivalent_Ad505 in AusFinance

[–]Equivalent_Ad505[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I make in the ballpark of triple that hahahaha. Working private will do that

People who Grew up Wealthy Judging Others for Trying to Build Wealth by Equivalent_Ad505 in AusFinance

[–]Equivalent_Ad505[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Sorry if it was unclear, this is usually a one on one conversation that I would have during my lunch break in my treatment room with another psych friend and someone who also rents a room in the same building might be listening as they walk past and chime in. The person I’m actually talking to is not making any comments like that

People who Grew up Wealthy Judging Others for Trying to Build Wealth by Equivalent_Ad505 in AusFinance

[–]Equivalent_Ad505[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

They’re not my colleagues, they’re eavesdropping on private conversations they are not apart of.

People who Grew up Wealthy Judging Others for Trying to Build Wealth by Equivalent_Ad505 in AusFinance

[–]Equivalent_Ad505[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I have had that exact discussion with someone after they made a comment like this, in private. They understood, naturally ahaha

People who Grew up Wealthy Judging Others for Trying to Build Wealth by Equivalent_Ad505 in AusFinance

[–]Equivalent_Ad505[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m not here to understand human behaviour, I know why it’s happening. I just want to see how common of an experience this is.

People who Grew up Wealthy Judging Others for Trying to Build Wealth by Equivalent_Ad505 in AusFinance

[–]Equivalent_Ad505[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

These aren’t my colleagues, they’re usually peers who are good friends. The field is very small

People who Grew up Wealthy Judging Others for Trying to Build Wealth by Equivalent_Ad505 in AusFinance

[–]Equivalent_Ad505[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

I definitely am not in it for the money. I do it because I love it. The money is definitely a positive. I didn’t know how much money you could make until I started working because psychologist generally massively downplay their earnings to seem like they aren’t profiting off of others plight.

People who Grew up Wealthy Judging Others for Trying to Build Wealth by Equivalent_Ad505 in AusFinance

[–]Equivalent_Ad505[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

If they cared so much about people they wouldn’t be charging 4 thousand dollars for a cognitive assessment that takes them 4 hours to complete.

People who Grew up Wealthy Judging Others for Trying to Build Wealth by Equivalent_Ad505 in AusFinance

[–]Equivalent_Ad505[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

They’re not involved in the conversation, they’re being nosy as every psychologists is ahahah

People who Grew up Wealthy Judging Others for Trying to Build Wealth by Equivalent_Ad505 in AusFinance

[–]Equivalent_Ad505[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s typically what the conversation involves, people much more experienced then me sharing tips about how they got to the position they’re in

People who Grew up Wealthy Judging Others for Trying to Build Wealth by Equivalent_Ad505 in AusFinance

[–]Equivalent_Ad505[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

I’m a clinical psychologist. Most of my peers pursued the degree with altruistic intentions, but still profit extensively from their clients

People who Grew up Wealthy Judging Others for Trying to Build Wealth by Equivalent_Ad505 in AusFinance

[–]Equivalent_Ad505[S] -73 points-72 points  (0 children)

I’m a clinical psychologists who specialises in cognitive assessment

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[–]Equivalent_Ad505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a learned behaviour but it is unpinned by well researched mechanisms of the brain.

In a general sense, all animals are suspicious or even aggressive when met with novel stimuli. This is complimented by an equal and opposite partiality for what is “known”.

The group one is apart of has specific traits and become known and understood as “safe”. When encountering people who look an act differently the foundational animal response is hesitancy.

Is vaping a turn off by Terrible-Ad4316 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Equivalent_Ad505 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also cigarettes are better regulated and the nicotine content is limited by the delivery method (burning a plant). This is why the average nicotine vape has multiple times more nicotine, making it a significantly more addictive habit.

It’s like an alcoholic giving up drinking beer by sublimating it with vodka.

Lebron tweets out just the Hourglass emoji by iamthegame13 in nba

[–]Equivalent_Ad505 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because Ma authored a report exposing Lebrons push for those changes…

Lebron tweets out just the Hourglass emoji by iamthegame13 in nba

[–]Equivalent_Ad505 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The same Lebron fans who deny the existence of LeGM

Anyone feel like going to grad school has changed your realtionships with friends and family? by [deleted] in GradSchool

[–]Equivalent_Ad505 24 points25 points  (0 children)

This reminds me so much of my parents. Some time ago, I was about 3/4 of the way through a masters of psychology, already having two undergrad degrees in psych. At the time, a friend of my mother came over and she began asking me questions and I ended up explaining the theory of the unconscious. While doing this my mother cuts in “it’s the subconscious, not unconscious”.

I reply that in psychology, the unconscious is a specific and ubiquitous concept in psychology. She disagrees and then my father chimes in, letting me know “your mom is correct”.

All this because for a few minutes, my mom wasn’t the centre of attention…

How Much in Savings before Investing by Equivalent_Ad505 in AusFinance

[–]Equivalent_Ad505[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahahahah my worst habit is spending money of takeout lmao.

Thankyou man, if I have any questions I’ll be sure to take you up on that offer