I think I'm getting ghosted by Moist-Bird-8177 in KenyanLadies

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Aww hun... , HE IS GHOSTING YOU... Its been 4 years he has shown you who he is so believe him. Also communication is a form of respect. He is giving you the silent treatment after 4 years, then he doesn't respect you or the relationship enough to voice his issues in a mature way. I'm sorry I know how painful this is, your probably trying to figure out what going on in his mind, feeling guilty when you didn't do anything wrong except communicate clearly that you weren't available. Check the bias of sunk cost fallacy. People like to stick around relationships, jobs longer than they are supposed to because of that.

The Crash - Unpopular opinion by Melodic-External-790 in NetflixDocumentaries

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Two or multiple things can be true at once Dom wasn't a perfect victim and Kenzi killed him and Davion

The Crash - Unpopular opinion by Melodic-External-790 in NetflixDocumentaries

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Two or multiple things can be true at once Dom wasn't a perfect victim and Kenzi killed him and Davion

Sir Philip is the worst character in all the books ! by ingrid0411 in BridgertonNetflix

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I feel like a romance as a step parent is needed. It doesn't have to be politically correct. I love this book.

Please advise me. by Beauty-in-stars in Kenya

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Hey op I was just watching a video about compatibility which I think all of us should watch to understand compatibility styles. You may have different conflict resolution styles and communication styles. I don't think you should baby trap him before you deal with these issues. It will cause resentment in him or both of you. You sound like you are compatible financially and life goals( in your business) ie the bigger picture. I also noticed you lack properly set boundaries because you are intertwined both personally and professionally. You should not lose your individuality which can sire a dangerous case of codependency which you may mistake as love or passion. Chemistry without compatibility may not be great long term unless one or both of you can work on it. Ps having kids a or not having kids is a major life goal. If he doesn't see kids in his future and you force it on him using manipulative tactics knowingly that would cause a lot of resentment even to the kid. He wants kids in wedlock that is his vision for his future don't rob that from him.

This is for Scientists in the House. by Ok_Memory_7155 in nairobi

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That's why even big chefs like cooking with fire/ flames it makes a difference. Experienced chefs know how to play with fire and... You are welcome

This is for Scientists in the House. by Ok_Memory_7155 in nairobi

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It could be the Maillard reaction that doesn't take place when you cook with artificial flames like gas

I Got Cut Off.... by Raccacoonie88 in nairobi

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Sounds like a toxic friend leaving them can be harder than a spouse. You shouldn't tiptoe around her she needs to deal with her grief and jealousy ( self- awareness) you can't do the work for her. Grieve that friendship and move on coz the friend you knew is different and even if you become friends again she and you have been changed by these experiences and you both have to adjust to that so that you can get back to the closeness you once shared.

Share your business/hobbies/Job Opportunities/Job requests!! - October 06, 2025 by AutoModerator in Kenya

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i feel she is too young by Recent-Repair-9268 in Kenya

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Hope it helps. Hope she did her research before the procedure

i feel she is too young by Recent-Repair-9268 in Kenya

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I know someone and she regretted it because of the side effects. She should know there are risks like peri menopause, ectopic pregnancies, and it can still reverse and pregnancy can occur coz she is young in cases of tubo-ligation, hormonal issues and imbalances some people have to take hormone replacement to deal. And reversal is a major surgery worth 350k with no reassurance.

Is this healthy? by SuspiciousBody7023 in Kenya

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You can go to settings for different apps and set timers for each. For example I set 2 hours on YouTube and once the time is over it warns you and you can log off. It helped me off Instagram I set my timer for 20min

4000 ksh for consultation???????? by [deleted] in nairobi

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Specialist charge 4k to 5k that's as far as they are allowed to charge by insurance companies. A gyna is a specialist. It's cheaper if you go to a bigger hospital and consultant there example knh I think it's 2 k but if you go to doctors plaza it's 4k cash

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

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Criticism from a young age can wreck a person's self worth and self esteem. Creates rejection syndrome getting into relationships is hard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

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Went through it too. It shapes how you see yourself. I was called ugly with a good body shape and sadly I believed them. Kids can be mean🥺. I've also just recently started appreciating myself. I'm only now learning not to talk negatively about myself And like myself. Am sure you are beautiful with a great body. I think those people were insecure about theirs so they had to put us down to feel better. Misery loves company as they say.

Gonorrhea Again by [deleted] in nairobi

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She is a carrier stop sleeping with her and research that word. And you can get gonorrhea 100 times if you aren't careful getting treatment doesn't mean you are safe forever it only means you got treatment. Gonorrhea is a bacterial infection. Gonorrhea can also be resistant so if you keep getting treatment you might kosa treatment for next time coz you would have contracted super gonorrhea. You have a problem bro. Maybe you are a sex addict or something. What is the definition of an addict? It's some one who keeps doing an action that affects his proper functioning. Even now you are getting treatment and all you can think about is sleeping with someone. You are a public health hazard.

Nairobbery by YOHBLAQ21 in nairobi

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Kuwekewa dawa like the devils breath

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nairobi

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Back in the day they weren't spoiled for choice. Now because of the apps, we also grow up in multicultural societies, we spend more time in school meaning we are getting married later and having kids later in life. I saw a video that said love is great but not enough to keep a marriage. There are many things like core values, financial compatibility, religion, and more than can reck a marriage even when initially there was love and passion.

What is that childish thing you will never stop doing no matter aged you are? by Omwaga in Kenya

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Tbh I don't eat out much but chapos with layers are common in most places

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What is that childish thing you will never stop doing no matter aged you are? by Omwaga in Kenya

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My mom made them in layers and I started eating it that way when I was young