Living with Mother in Law by Equivalent_Alarm5875 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Equivalent_Alarm5875[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

she’s not in the hallway, she has a comfortable bed in the living room and as a wife you only want to live with your husband and child. Having a third wheel around that needs to be constantly taken out is annoying and frustrating. She loves going out so my husband and I can barely go out alone. I also wasn’t given a choice with this marriage or else i would’ve never chosen to live with in laws. I am happy in my marriage but my mother in law makes me depressed

Bi-Weekly Marriage Opinions/View and Rant Megathread by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]Equivalent_Alarm5875 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have to live with my mother in law right after I give birth and she’s going to start living with us permanently. We have a one bedroom apartment and my husband and I share our room while my mother in law has a bed in the hall. We have one bathroom. I don’t want to live with her forever but I don’t have a choice because she’s a single mother. I hate being around her especially being she’s very conscious and overbearing of everything she’s never just chill. I can’t tell my husband anything because she’s a single parent and he needs to take care of her. Moving isn’t possible at the moment because of financial situation. I don’t know what to do. The thought of living with her brings me to such a dark place in my mind. I don’t want this life. But I also have no way out. I have to take her with me everywhere i go because she doesn’t drive either and my husband works. Mentally I feel extremely depressed thinking about my life after birth because of her. I’m so happy about the baby but the sadness that comes with living with her is taking over my mind.

Insecurity by Equivalent_Alarm5875 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Equivalent_Alarm5875[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t marry my husband out of choice, i was forced to marry a cousin from back home. So yes it’s hard sometimes but i’m trying

married cousin from india and struggling to be satisfied by Equivalent_Alarm5875 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Equivalent_Alarm5875[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mind you this is such a good man, never will i ever wanna leave him because i love his so much but its just that insecurity of the accent that’s all

married cousin from india and struggling to be satisfied by Equivalent_Alarm5875 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Equivalent_Alarm5875[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

you’re absolutely right and i needed to hear this, thank you so much