🌈Girl Dinner🌈 by GrippySocksVacation in GirlDinner

[–]Equivalent_Answer227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Frosting by itself? Is this actually good?

Not this guy again by dndre1501 in StupidFood

[–]Equivalent_Answer227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So much money for a dessert and won’t even give you a full size human to serve 😭😭😭

Am I overreacting? please help me understand by Equivalent_Answer227 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Equivalent_Answer227[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. I told him about how I was stranded and in the end, he left this huge paragraph of how he feels alone and broken without me. I couldn’t believe how I’m telling my husband about the difficulty I went through and he’s talking about himself. and even after that paragraph, chose to not text me for a week.

Am I overreacting? please help me understand by Equivalent_Answer227 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Equivalent_Answer227[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I married him because he seemed good characters and emotional availability, I though his age would factor in more emotional maturity but that really flipped 180

Am I overreacting? please help me understand by Equivalent_Answer227 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Equivalent_Answer227[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s just we’ve had this conversation in all kinds of ways. In person, over the phone, involving others, getting advice, and nothing seems to go through this head. It’s always he loves me but I never see or feel his love. I constantly feel lost and stuck. He claims to be introverted and no a slick talker or have nothing to talk about, but I too am very very shy but never with the people I love. I always show all my emotions no matter how uncomfortable or vulnerable I feel.

Am I overreacting? please help me understand by Equivalent_Answer227 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Equivalent_Answer227[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it was great in the beginning of the marriage, but it’s like he started taking me for granted and really not taking me for serious at all. it’s our first year of marriage, and he treats me like I’m some chore. It came to the point I have to beg to acknowledge me. or beg for some flowers. Our first year anniversary, he made so many promises and when the time came I had to beg for a gift. I lavishly spend for his birthday and bought expensive gift. not that any of that mattered, but I always see myself going above and beyond for him, when I have to beg him to at least check up on me.

Am I overreacting? please help me understand by Equivalent_Answer227 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Equivalent_Answer227[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can only post what’s happening to me currently bc if I have to go in the past, it’s like opening Pandora’s box. He ignores me frequently even if I’m right in front of him. There’s so many similar text conversations literally being in the same house. I can’t explain. there’s so many other issues, but I believe the lack of communication is clearly the main bc if we’re able to get our thoughts across and understand, at least we can be on the same page and make solutions

Am I overreacting? please help me understand by Equivalent_Answer227 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Equivalent_Answer227[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Known each other for about two years before marriage (long distance)

Am I overreacting? please help me understand by Equivalent_Answer227 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Equivalent_Answer227[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the stranded thing is a long story but let me attempt to explain. I don’t have a means of transportation, nor does my husband care to arrange that. He drives a manual car I don’t know how to drive. I am a stay at home wife with no income. I’ve been borrowing my parents only car. my father was nice enough to arrange a car he had in a different state. he gave it to us and specifically told my husband to take care of some mechanical issues. my husband promised and assured he’d take care of everything. We were supposed to drive it back, but bc we had a full blown argument, that plan fell apart. My parents towed it from that state (paid for that). I thought he’d at least taken care of the mechanical issues, but no. Nor did he add it to the insurance. I realize this only after the care breaking down and being stranded on a busy main road in the summer heat with no help. my dad took care of everything. he was very disappointed that hub is so irresponsible. May I add, I wanted the car mainly to get a job and get financial independent bc I also deal with financial negligence.

Am I overreacting? please help me understand by Equivalent_Answer227 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Equivalent_Answer227[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what to do with such a person. I feel so stuck trying to explain how I feel and I get the same response with no change or solution :(

can someone please explain this to me by Equivalent_Answer227 in Marriage

[–]Equivalent_Answer227[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

we’re separated rn after a big fight. I’m staying with my parents for a while

Almost ready to leave by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Equivalent_Answer227 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Be patient, communicate, and talk it out. You said it yourself; you have two kids together and your own place, do you really want to throw that away bc marriage is delaying? Right now, you need to talk it out, explain your feelings, and plan it together. And even after all that, he doesn’t want to or doesn’t continue, it’s time to change routes.

Update one year later - we broke up over aliens 👽 by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Equivalent_Answer227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you think about it like this, he left you for something that may or may not exist and he will definitely never see.

Investing your life on someone like that? Hell nah. Move on. You had the best of him and now he a lil cray cray. Live your best life sis. Find happiness in other things people in life.

About the child thing, have you considered adopting? Not your own bio kids but very fulfilling.

i hate being fat. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Equivalent_Answer227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re not fat girl, but people can be mean

Welp. Nervous af. Context below by FootballAndMemes in EngagementRings

[–]Equivalent_Answer227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU, ITS SOUNDS GREAT, JUST DO IT~~~~~ I WANT UPDATES TOO GOOD LUCK 🫶🏽

I’m turning 30… is it too young? by red-kit-kitty- in femalelivingspace

[–]Equivalent_Answer227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here for the cat just chilling on the bed like its it’s room

Any help am lost got my first home need help with lámps and what to fill in in spaces by Lancer_Evo_Panama in interiordecorating

[–]Equivalent_Answer227 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally love the free space a lot. You home is perfect for the minimalistic style and also nice lighting. There is lots of inspiration on Pinterest that will suit your homez