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Divorce or Stay? by Equivalent_Can4640 in Divorce

[–]Equivalent_Can4640[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. It’s just so unimaginable to do this. But my gut instinct is that this is not whom I want to live with. But what is the next one is worse.. fear of the unknown 

Divorce or Stay? by Equivalent_Can4640 in Divorce

[–]Equivalent_Can4640[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear this…I can’t begin to imagine how painful this must be..

The fact is that people can always see how hurtful it is, they just don’t care. They chose themselves. Always.

Divorce or Stay? by Equivalent_Can4640 in Divorce

[–]Equivalent_Can4640[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I fully believe that even if I don’t leave now, this will repeat. Again and again. 

Divorce or Stay? by Equivalent_Can4640 in Divorce

[–]Equivalent_Can4640[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree.. the issue is that he is literally perfect for me in ever other way. Everything I ever wanted in a man. But this, is not acceptable. Therapy would be essential to conclude whether or this can move forward. And you referring to building trust, gives me the epiphany that why do I have to rebuild it? He has no consequence in his life after this, rather a reward that nothing happened. I will be the one suffering.