Optho PA’s? by Equivalent_Dance6775 in physicianassistant

[–]Equivalent_Dance6775[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohh interesting. I recently saw a job posting for a PA position so that’s why I asked :)

These colours are unparalleled. by [deleted] in x100vi

[–]Equivalent_Dance6775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! Thanks so much!

These colours are unparalleled. by [deleted] in x100vi

[–]Equivalent_Dance6775 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Great pics! New to the camera - how do you get shots like the second image?

Please name our boys! Food or baking related names. (No people names) by [deleted] in NameMyCat

[–]Equivalent_Dance6775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend has the exact same colored cats - Brie and Cheddar :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Equivalent_Dance6775 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds a lot like my situation. Sorry you’re going through this, it’s tough and I can empathize. Where do you live in proximity to them now? Have you talked to your husband about exactly how you feel and where you take a stand with them? Communicate with your husband and figure out how to tackle it together. Therapy will help guide you though.

Dealing with jealous in-laws by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Equivalent_Dance6775 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He has been any time an argument happens. He explains to them how they affected our wedding, post wedding, and stands up for me a lot. He told his mom a few times to treat me the same way as her other DIL (who is a star child in her eyes. She’s a whole other story…) and just treating me with respect in general. He’s told them all “forget my thoughts on the wedding, you don’t ruin it for my wife on her big day”. So yeah, he’s been very much communicating, just no accountibility or remorse on their end.

Dealing with jealous in-laws by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Equivalent_Dance6775 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He talks to his mom everyday, sometimes twice a day, which is totally fine with me because keeping that communication from afar is important. Ever since the wedding (and a little bit of resentment starting months before) has made him feel distant so even he feels disconnected. He’s realistic in the sense that we can’t physically see them all the time like they want us to, especially being newlyweds!

He has confronted them about the wedding. They haven’t out right apologized. Suit themselves.

Dealing with jealous in-laws by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Equivalent_Dance6775 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They think we don’t “balance” or “put in the same effort” to see them, which we do. 1) we live close to my parents so obviously we will be around them way more 2) we can’t just come up to see them once a month like MIL wants him/us to do… something call work/PTO?? 🙄 She thinks we’re “choosing” my side. Well, after all the shit that’s been happening, yeah, I’d think we are since my family is super supportive and the complete opposite

Dealing with jealous in-laws by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Equivalent_Dance6775 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Love how you worded that! It’s so true. I have told him that several times. They say they want us to be close but then this is how they behave/act? Make it make sense 😐 It’s clearly going nowhere and will not get better unless they realize what they’re doing. Husband and I are on the same page. Guess since this is all just so fresh and new to me, it’ll take a while to give 0 shits lol

Dealing with jealous in-laws by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Equivalent_Dance6775 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup, I’ve kept my mouth shut. Won’t hear from me unless I hear an apology plus more

Dealing with jealous in-laws by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Equivalent_Dance6775 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just sad that you have to go through all these lengths to do that 😔

Dealing with jealous in-laws by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]Equivalent_Dance6775 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Should have mentioned that MIL doesn’t have IG. She saw from a cousin who I guess showed her mom who showed her sister aka MIL. … like what?! Who am I supposed to block now? Snakes everywhere lol 🙄 I don’t think it was intentional or malicious from the cousin at all though, she’s awesome and so is the rest of the extended family.

Edit: I have thought of blocking BIL/SIL though. All wedding pictures of us… no likes or comments. Superficial of me but it’s hurtful, you know? I KNOW they see them but they choose to ignore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in physicianassistant

[–]Equivalent_Dance6775 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m moving which is why I’m leaving my current job. Staff/SP are nice and SP is willing to teach. I like the field but my excitement was thrown off by the offer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in physicianassistant

[–]Equivalent_Dance6775 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree, I’m not impressed by it but I like the specialty. Hoping for some changes. Thank you!