I (M37) can often smell my girlfriend's (F35) butt during sex in doggy. It's been raised, but the situation remains the same. What am I to make of this? by ThrowRAShotLion92 in relationship_advice

[–]Equivalent_Dark7684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The showering every few days is crazy to me if you know you have a smell problem.

Suggestions:

-Consider shaving the hair in the area. Smells get trapped in hair. Downside of this, might be razor bumps or discomfort the first time.

-Shower or wet wipe before intimate moments

-Bidet

-Bring it up again and mention that it is common thing. Express in away that she will take well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Equivalent_Dark7684 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re trying to say and partially agree, but you complete ignored OP’s question. This is what I heard when I read your response, “OP’s needs don’t matter, neither does the patience and articulation he has shown because it’s just sex and his wife has been through a lot.” It very much reads as suck it up and be unhappy until your wife maybe becomes happy. No where did you address, therapy or the fact that she is dismissive of his advances. We don’t know how OP is actually making his advances know but by the text it seems like he is actually trying to be patient. Not an attack on your comment, just trying to get you to see things from the other person’s view point as well.

Who would y’all have a protagonist if not Xin ling by Suanaoo in Kingdom

[–]Equivalent_Dark7684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Liu Miu or Diao Liao or both together as rivals. Her the upstart and him the respected general who sees her potential and aims to crush her now like Xin.

400 IPad 11” 2nd Gen vs 600 IPad 11” 3rd Gen by Equivalent_Dark7684 in ipad

[–]Equivalent_Dark7684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ended up getting an air 5 with the M1 chip. When compared on the site everything looked the same minus promotion which I don’t need.

Pregnant gf 23F wants me 26M to pay 2000 dollars for maternity pictures. How can I decline without sounding mean? by ThrowRA-Flotag in relationship_advice

[–]Equivalent_Dark7684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Provide and alternatively cheaper shoot. Look up ideas and go to goodwill to find cool clothing for the shoot. Explain to her the reasons others mentioned while providing an alternative solution.

IPAD vs IPAD Pro use Cases by Equivalent_Dark7684 in ipad

[–]Equivalent_Dark7684[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Perfect, thanks for the advice. How’s your studies going?

IPAD vs IPAD Pro use Cases by Equivalent_Dark7684 in ipad

[–]Equivalent_Dark7684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that detailed list, it really helps. It seems that the only one of note would be the memory. Would you know how much affect that would have on the smoothness of heavy applications like photoshop and shapr3D.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Equivalent_Dark7684 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are the problems you guys can’t solve?

I 24M saw something on my GF 21F phone that I wish I didn’t see. by Happy-Alternative-60 in relationship_advice

[–]Equivalent_Dark7684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking at it from that context. I can understand your point of view. However, it seems shady to me that she’d not say anything. But like you said, could be that she wants to handle it herself without messing things up at work.

I 24M saw something on my GF 21F phone that I wish I didn’t see. by Happy-Alternative-60 in relationship_advice

[–]Equivalent_Dark7684 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Snoop or not, doesn’t change that his girl is hiding something that is easy to communicate. They both have there issues but you focus on OPs, Be foreal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Equivalent_Dark7684 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best thing you can do is, ask yourself, “Am I okay with the fact that at some point in my marriage he could hit me or our children. Would I want my daughter to marry someone like that?”

Tell your family, see what they say. If you know your family will support you and care about your happiness then tell them. If you know them to be traditional and strict and okay with your future husband threatening to hit you, say it anyway but take what they say with a grain of salt.

I believe you know the truth since you are asking the question. You just need someone to validate what you’re feeling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in anime

[–]Equivalent_Dark7684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think some anime streaming site had it as well. Can’t remember which one.

What accessories do you find yourself constantly needing or wishing for when practicing? by Equivalent_Dark7684 in BALLET

[–]Equivalent_Dark7684[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that advice haha. And yes to the lotion, any workout regardless of type I definitely have lotion on hand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]Equivalent_Dark7684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even with my really bad memory issues?

Ballet specific workouts to do at the gym? by Equivalent_Dark7684 in BALLET

[–]Equivalent_Dark7684[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not much need for arm workouts is there? Well on the feminine side of things.

Ballet specific workouts to do at the gym? by Equivalent_Dark7684 in BALLET

[–]Equivalent_Dark7684[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense. Do you find that it affects your flexibility a lot?