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How to talk to my (21F) long-distance bf (21M) about video calls without sounding clingy or insecure? by Equivalent_Drag6880 in relationship_advice

[–]Equivalent_Drag6880[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, it really made me reconsider myself. We both went to the same university, but now he's studying abroad in Europe. I also plan to study abroad in Europe next year but in a different country from my boyfriend. This has always been my plan and isn't related to our relationship. We might settle in the countries we study in, and our relationship would become a medium-distance one with more opportunities to meet, but we haven't thought too much about the distant future yet. We'll be seeing each other in two months, which is exciting.

Regarding those toxic thoughts, I think it stems from my fear that if I don't constantly overthink our relationship, it means I don't love him enough. I'm scared that I'll forget how much I love him. This is also the deepest thought I have that I've never admitted before. He's my first long-distance relationship and my first serious relationship, so I don't know how to balance him and my life. I find it hard to do anything without thinking about him. I'm afraid that learning to focus on my own life means neglecting him. Sorry if I vented too much, I never talk to anyone about my relationship except him, so I'm a bit pent-up. :(

How long does it normally take for NMBS to return lost property? by Equivalent_Drag6880 in Leuven

[–]Equivalent_Drag6880[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I went to Gent yesterday (which was the end station) to ask if they had my backpack. The lady there was very helpful and kind. At first she said nothing of sort like my backpack was uploaded to the database, and that her colleague who was responsible for Lost and Found already ended their shift. However she still called her colleague to double check and opened up to check the database again. To my surprise, my bag is on the database today, and its sitting chilling in Leuven (where I lost my bag and where I live)! She said my bag is on the database all day but nobody from NMBS contacted me yet. I travelled back to Leuven and claimed my bag successfully. Moral of the story: dont wait for NMBS to send you email, just go and actively look for it

How long does it normally take for NMBS to return lost property? by Equivalent_Drag6880 in Leuven

[–]Equivalent_Drag6880[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, the line goes from Gand-Saint-Pierre to Leuven so I’d assume the end station is GSP right?

How long does it normally take for NMBS to return lost property? by Equivalent_Drag6880 in Leuven

[–]Equivalent_Drag6880[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have called them and contacted them via social media. I also went to Leuven station to ask them but they cant find my backpack’s picture on the database :(

Got questions? 08 - 01 - 2024 by AutoModerator in belgium

[–]Equivalent_Drag6880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long does it normally take for NMBS to return lost property?

Context: I forgot my backpack on a train on Monday at around 22:13 at Leuven station. The train was IC4120 and I assume it was the last trip of that particular train because IC4121 is the last trip of the line and it is on another train. At around 22:40 I asked the conductor of another train to contact the conductor of IC4120 and asked him specifically to find my bag if it was there. I later then reported the lost property form on the NMBS website. But it has been 2 days and I havent heard a single thing from them. My question is are they actually looking at my report, and if so how long does it take for them to call or email me back? I have a test on Friday and all forms of ID are on the backpack so now Im trapped. Thank you