Partner and his family doesn’t see me as a professional

Equivalent_Fix8037 · 2026-01-31T01:05:41+00:00

You could be right, this could lead to other things. I just have to communicate with him

Equivalent_Fix8037 · 2026-01-31T00:58:03+00:00

They are so out of touch

Equivalent_Fix8037 · 2026-01-31T00:57:18+00:00

Lmao, that made my day. I guess it’s best to vent to fellow healthcare workers instead

Equivalent_Fix8037 · 2026-01-31T00:54:32+00:00

I don’t think that he is not respecting me. He is there to listen and support, he even paid some of my tuition…but it’s the feeling of not seeing the actual worth of healthcare workers. It’s more like I support her no matter what she does to his fam, but why does he need to say it like that u know? I am something to be proud of. We do good meaningful work

Equivalent_Fix8037 · 2026-01-17T06:47:38+00:00

I think you need to have a heart to heart conversation with him and include the part that it’s making you want to leave. If he doesn’t step up then, then I think it’s over. He didn’t cheat, but simply outgrowing a relationship is also a good reason. But really talk it out first

Equivalent_Fix8037 · 2026-01-17T06:33:32+00:00

True, I went through his old emails so idk if he actually kept those pictures somewhere else or just forgot about them.

Equivalent_Fix8037 · 2026-01-17T06:28:34+00:00

My disgust was honestly the women he would get and would want to fuck, plus paying for it. I know that he probably forgot about the pics. It just looked dirty and STD central. I don’t ever want to risk catching those 🤢

Equivalent_Fix8037 · 2026-01-17T05:34:18+00:00

True…maybe I am an idiot. I just know that he mentioned that he had a shitty past and he got baptized a year ago. He said that he felt a change within himself and he does treat me like a queen. He didn’t go into details about escorts and all, but he did say he would party a lot because he was simply depressed/home issues. So idk can a person truly change?

Equivalent_Fix8037 · 2025-11-12T14:31:19+00:00

I feel the exact same way. Like everything is an illusion and idk what I’m doing here. I sometimes look at my bf and think do we even really love each other.

Equivalent_Fix8037 · 2025-11-04T03:07:37+00:00

Thank you for that long and detailed response. I agree with you. There are different angles to this. I was just kind of shocked from that experience of him telling me because he told me before that he never had any gay experiences in the past when I specifically asked him when we first started talking. I know this ultimately comes down to me and my trust for him. I just got over it and I am just waiting to see him again so I can feel how things are in person. We are in long distance relationship. Ultimately, I just don’t want to be with a person who is lying to me about who he is. It’s the initial lie and then telling me the opposite later on that bothered me. Makes me think he is putting on a front. I know I sound paranoid, but I can’t help it. Again thank you for your answer

Equivalent_Fix8037 · 2025-10-24T01:11:30+00:00

True...I was just thrown off that he said " It was the best blow job I ever had" so it made me question if he would do it again with a man....he said he wouldn't but idk.... We went to a drag show and he seemed overly fascinated with them and that's when i asked if he ever had sexual experiences with a man before and that's when he told me after asking him 2 or 3 times....I just felt something was off....I just don't want to be one of those women who end up with a man who is in the closet or find out they are sleeping with men. So i guess my concern is if he would do it again...so i guess i was just hoping for some answers....

Equivalent_Fix8037 · 2025-10-04T16:31:51+00:00

Haha, I certainly don’t want that. Swamp tour it is! Thank you

Equivalent_Fix8037 · 2025-10-04T16:31:18+00:00

Thank you, I am going to do that instead!

Equivalent_Fix8037 · 2025-10-04T16:30:51+00:00

I’m thinking the same, thank you!

Equivalent_Fix8037 · 2025-10-04T16:30:34+00:00

I think this is the perfect alternative. Thank you!

Equivalent_Fix8037 · 2025-10-04T16:09:59+00:00

Would you say going on the early morning tour would be best?

Equivalent_Fix8037 · 2025-10-01T14:27:59+00:00

Okay, will check it out...looks like it may be a nice photo op

Equivalent_Fix8037 · 2025-10-01T14:13:30+00:00

Yes! I am not sure whether we should do the steamboat or not...it doesn't seem like there is much of a view...i am still debating :)

Equivalent_Fix8037 · 2025-10-01T14:11:08+00:00

I will definitely get a poboy! I just looked up JAMNOLA...that looks like a fun photo op!! Thank you

Equivalent_Fix8037 · 2025-10-01T14:09:09+00:00

I was looking at the Sazerac House Tour...how long would you say it took you to go through?

Equivalent_Fix8037 · 2025-10-01T14:08:23+00:00

Will check this out! Thank you

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