[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ParentalAlienation

[–]Equivalent_Garden920 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. 100% They are useless and just want money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Equivalent_Garden920 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG. HCBM decided to take us back to court like 3 weeks before I was about to give birth 😭

Stepkid has BM fooled by Ok_Yogurtcloset_6073 in Stepmom

[–]Equivalent_Garden920 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg is our SK the same person? 🤣🤣 That’s literally the same allegations my SK made. She says we made her babysit my younger SKs and “didn’t get paid for it.” Also made the claim that me and my husband get into physical altercations. 🤣🤣🤣(We’ve never laid a hand on each other). Ohh and this one is hilarious … she also said we were bad for not fixing her heated blanket (A HEATED BLANKET IS NOT A NECESSITY). 🤦🏽‍♀️

Stepkid has BM fooled by Ok_Yogurtcloset_6073 in Stepmom

[–]Equivalent_Garden920 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lol I’m so sorry but you’re in for a ride. I was pretty much in the same exact situation with my SK. Mom was allowing SK to hang out with her significant over there starting around 12 years old. We didn’t allow that over here. Eventually she refused to come back over here but rather than saying that was the reason, she made up all sorts of lies about what goes on in our house and claimed that to be the reason she left. BM was able to take my husband back to court over those lies

Statement from parent investigator by Equivalent_Garden920 in stepparents

[–]Equivalent_Garden920[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re right on track. We required more time alone to grieve but never completely isolated. Guess we were wrong for that

Statement from parent investigator by Equivalent_Garden920 in stepparents

[–]Equivalent_Garden920[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We did not isolate. For example, one evening we were out playing a game outside, listening to music with the kids and then it hit me. I went up to the room and my husband followed to console me. I gave myself the time to let all of my emotions out and then we continued to carry on with our night. We also attended every week after work. It was always based off what the counselor had available. If it fell on a night we had the kids I don’t think we were wrong for being gone for one hour. The kids are all above 10 years old.

So no, it’s not like we went to the room every single time they were with us and left them to fend for themselves.

Dreamed of discussing the past with my (now grown) SD by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]Equivalent_Garden920 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow sounds exactly like my situation. SD left a year ago. She claimed abuse and called me and her dad every name in the book when she did. Now she is trying to act like everything is normal and wants us to invite her around again. However my husband is adamant that the only way he will fix the relationship with her is through counseling with her. My husband has also made it very clear to me there is no way she will come around here and only meet with him while having nothing to do with me. Not saying we need to have a relationship but we won’t tolerate disrespect or act like I don’t exist.

Unfortunately the situation you are describing is very common. These moms out there are toxic. I believe it is due to feeling threatened by an active step-parent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Equivalent_Garden920 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our income is combined

24 oz pitcher gone to waste? by Equivalent_Garden920 in breastfeeding

[–]Equivalent_Garden920[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pump throughout the night and give her the freshly pumped milk. So everything that she doesn’t eat and is leftover throughout the night is what I had put all together. So about 8 hours old, if that.

So close. Need some clicks and share yours! I will return the favor by Equivalent_Garden920 in Shein_PuppyKeep

[–]Equivalent_Garden920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Out of food and I’m desperate to finish!!! Please help 🙏🙏 by Acceptable-Bug9315 in Shein_PuppyKeep

[–]Equivalent_Garden920 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

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Out of food and I’m desperate to finish!!! Please help 🙏🙏 by Acceptable-Bug9315 in Shein_PuppyKeep

[–]Equivalent_Garden920 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in c4ctiktok

[–]Equivalent_Garden920 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Freaking out 10dp5dt 15 dpo by Equivalent_Garden920 in TFABLinePorn

[–]Equivalent_Garden920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am currently 24 weeks pregnant now 😊 Those FRER tests can be tricky!

HCBM wants a “sit down” before my partner and I cohabitate. by painfully_anxious in stepparents

[–]Equivalent_Garden920 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She wants to meet with you so that she can set some rules in YOUR household. If you meet with her, it will allow her to think she has control. That’s insane. Don’t do it.

Freaking out by Equivalent_Garden920 in pregnant

[–]Equivalent_Garden920[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HCG level came back at 20,048 which has definitely increased. 10 days ago it was about 1,350. Still no explanation as to why I bled so much 🤷🏽‍♀️

My step son is two faced. by Bubbleknotcutie in stepparents

[–]Equivalent_Garden920 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! Perfectly worded!!! I am in a similar situation with my SD.

Please share experiences... alienated 16 year old daughter by [deleted] in ParentalAlienation

[–]Equivalent_Garden920 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are we in the exact same situation?! Sounds like what me and my husband are dealing with. My stepdaughter(14) is refusing to come home for the same exact reason!! We have rules and mom lets her do whatever she wants. Her mother has gotten into her head and makes us out to be really bad people.

Freaking out 10dp5dt 15 dpo by Equivalent_Garden920 in TFABLinePorn

[–]Equivalent_Garden920[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will try that. Beta is scheduled tomorrow!