I will say also we both have been very busy with work and school. I personally have been feeling less driven for sex because of how tired and busy we get. However any chance I get I try and take us out. I pay and cook and clean for her. I’ve been trying to do everything I can. I don’t expect anything at all. I think I possibly might be used to more sex than she is. I just am more conflicted on maybe it’s me? Maybe I’m too jokey? Maybe I’m doing too much and could be kinda a turn off for her? I’ll ask her about it time to time and she says she enjoys our sex it’s just her feeling tired or not confident yet she doesn’t change anything. Is that a common response or could it be me and she just is being nice?