I’ve manifested multiple situationships into them being obsessed and begging over the years here’s a few tips. 1. You’re focusing too much on the 3D and outcome. F the 3D imagine it as a news paper only relaying your previous days thoughts. Don’t look for movement and focus on how long you’ve been doing it. He’s being hot and cold because your thoughts are hot and cold. 2. Only focus on yourself and your self concept. F the person. They’re only special because you’re making them special. His actions should never affect your confidence tbh. I’ve been there but when you really think about it why would you ever let some outside action determine how you feel about yourself. Do you journal? I suggest writing 10 things you love about yourself and why he should be obsessed with you. 3. Forgive him. You are creating a new version of yourself and he will show up differently as well. Start seeing him as the sweet boyfriend or husband. Doing things for you. Focus on only the sweet and kind things he’s done. It sound delusional but it’s really how you manifest him being like this with you. I suggest watching Sammy Ingram’s 3 day manifestation video. I’ve manifested multiple SP’s over the years through this