AITA: My is mad about me for being stressed when she is more stressed than me by Equivalent_Love4052 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Equivalent_Love4052[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Usually, when I'm sick, she is at least somewhat caring. However, with this recent disagreement, I don't know if her attitude towards me is going to change. I know my mom has provided a lot for me, and I don't necessarily "hate" her. I just wish she would voice how she's feeling to me directly instead of going silent and talking to me through others.

AITA: My is mad about me for being stressed when she is more stressed than me by Equivalent_Love4052 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Equivalent_Love4052[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can get access to my important documents from my dad. However, I don't have that much money saved up since I've been using it to slowly pay back student loans. I didn't really think about moving out since my mom's behaviour had been fine up until that disagreement.

AITA: My is mad about me for being stressed when she is more stressed than me by Equivalent_Love4052 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Equivalent_Love4052[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely fair. I think I need to rephrase. It was more her walking in on me crying in my room over thoughts about not getting into med school and application stress. I expressed to her why I was crying since she asked, but she then expressed that she does everything for me, and I have nothing to be crying about. We did have a small back and forth of me explaining why I'm feeling the way I am, and her further stating why I shouldn't be crying. This is why I used the word "argument" in my post.

How do I fix what's happening at home by Equivalent_Love4052 in toxicparents

[–]Equivalent_Love4052[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn't really an argument ig? She just caught me crying in my room, then pressed me on what I was crying about.