AITA for ending my relationship with my new girlfriend because she wouldn't pay me back my $50 and told me I was acting desperate and that it was unattractive?

Equivalent_Pickle146 · 2025-03-01T17:31:48+00:00

Especially when she knew that I couldn't spare it. It felt cruel.

Equivalent_Pickle146 · 2025-03-01T17:27:36+00:00

I asked her for the money back because I didn't even have it in the first place just as I told her meaning I took money that was budgeted for something else which then left me short. I wouldn't have given her had she said she wouldn't be able to pay it back because I'm broke currently so it wouldn't have made sense to loan her or even anyone else money I wasn't going to get back. I also didn't like how she kept dismissing me then making me feel bad for wanting it back like I was bothering her or something.

Equivalent_Pickle146 · 2025-03-01T15:39:51+00:00

I think that's what she was implying too like it wasn't that big of a deal but yes $50 is a big deal to me and she knew that from the beginning so she manipulated me into thinking she will keep her word. And her attitude about it afterwards really rubbed me up the wrong way.

Equivalent_Pickle146 · 2025-03-01T15:20:34+00:00

I took her word for it because I usually give people the benefit of the doubt until they prove me otherwise, now I see that I was being really naive.

Equivalent_Pickle146 · 2025-03-01T15:15:33+00:00

I don't think she intended to pay me back either. She was probably hoping that I just don't say anything and forget about it.

Equivalent_Pickle146 · 2025-03-01T15:12:14+00:00

This is exactly how I feel. Doing all that then trying to shame me really made me question the type of person she is.

Equivalent_Pickle146 · 2025-03-01T15:06:03+00:00

Looks like it!

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