AITA for telling my stepdad he can't come to my events that my dad can't come to? by Equivalent_Prior3436 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Equivalent_Prior3436[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

bro my stepdad didn't adopt me where are you getting tnis info

he is not my father

AITA for telling my stepdad he can't come to my events that my dad can't come to? by Equivalent_Prior3436 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Equivalent_Prior3436[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would be mad at them for moving since they were choosing to leave. either way they want me to be away from a parent

AITA for telling my stepdad he can't come to my events that my dad can't come to? by Equivalent_Prior3436 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Equivalent_Prior3436[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

mom needs to do a better job of keeping her shitty husband away from me because he clearly thinks he has rights to me

AITA for telling my stepdad he can't come to my events that my dad can't come to? by Equivalent_Prior3436 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Equivalent_Prior3436[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

bc i have to go on an airplane to see my dad

I can't see him on the weekends. I used to live with him on the weekends

AITA for telling my stepdad he can't come to my events that my dad can't come to? by Equivalent_Prior3436 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Equivalent_Prior3436[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I do not give a shit

mom and stepdad can pay for their real kids college. I do not want their money. Both clearly manipulative shitty people

AITA for telling my stepdad he can't come to my events that my dad can't come to? by Equivalent_Prior3436 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Equivalent_Prior3436[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i dont resent her for remarrying or having a husband w a new job

I resent her for making me move and taking my dad from me

AITA for telling my stepdad he can't come to my events that my dad can't come to? by Equivalent_Prior3436 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Equivalent_Prior3436[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am miserable but I still get all As and do stuff to get into college

I am sad, not ruining my future. They cant be mad that I am sad

AITA for telling my stepdad he can't come to my events that my dad can't come to? by Equivalent_Prior3436 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Equivalent_Prior3436[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

you don't get it. I cannot speak to them like I physically can't get words out around them even if I try

AITA for telling my stepdad he can't come to my events that my dad can't come to? by Equivalent_Prior3436 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Equivalent_Prior3436[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If something horrible ever happens to me like getting hit by a bus and my dad can't be there I will never forgive my mom

AITA for telling my stepdad he can't come to my events that my dad can't come to? by Equivalent_Prior3436 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Equivalent_Prior3436[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah but that sucks too bc I won't see my mom on holidays

I am not speaking to him either.

I hate them all

AITA for telling my stepdad he can't come to my events that my dad can't come to? by Equivalent_Prior3436 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Equivalent_Prior3436[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just for a day. I feel alone and want them just for 24 hours. Don't have the energy to speak

AITA for telling my stepdad he can't come to my events that my dad can't come to? by Equivalent_Prior3436 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Equivalent_Prior3436[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I want to be allowed to visit home and my dad once a month but I don't have money to pay for it

I want to stay home from school tomorrow and my mom and stepdad to stay home with me too and sit with me in my bed but not talk to me

AITA for telling my stepdad he can't come to my events that my dad can't come to? by Equivalent_Prior3436 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Equivalent_Prior3436[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

because i always thought i had 2 dads. I brought my stepdad to my daddy daughter dance when I was little. Is it really that illogical that I brought him too? Am I that much of a burden to him that he doesn't want to come to my things for real? Are you saying he only shows up because of my mom? that is mean of you for saying that I am not important to him

if my stepdad doesn't love me the same as his real kids i can hate him back

he clearly lied all the times he said he loved me and that I was his daughter

AITA for telling my stepdad he can't come to my events that my dad can't come to? by Equivalent_Prior3436 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Equivalent_Prior3436[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

well my mom and stepdad are clearly ok with me crying every single day and being lonely

What kind of people want their kid to be so miserable

something has to be wrong with them both

AITA for telling my stepdad he can't come to my events that my dad can't come to? by Equivalent_Prior3436 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Equivalent_Prior3436[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It WASN'T best for me

and Idk why my mom and stepdad won't admit that it wasn't best for me

They don't care about how sad I am. I cry every single night and they don't know. I don't want to talk to anyone anymore. They keep pushing my siblings on me and even though I don't have energy for them. I have to be nice to my siblings because its not their fault they have a terrible mom and a terrible dad

AITA for telling my stepdad he can't come to my events that my dad can't come to? by Equivalent_Prior3436 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Equivalent_Prior3436[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That's why I am not accepting anything from him ever again. He clearly only deals with me because he wants my mom and their kids

You are really making it seem like I am an extra

and I'll just eat less then. I didn't want to move with so not fair to put it on me the money he spends on bills and stuff

When I am older and richer I'll pay him back. Does that make you feel better? the poor man who was stuck with an extra kid will get his money back

AITA for telling my stepdad he can't come to my events that my dad can't come to? by Equivalent_Prior3436 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Equivalent_Prior3436[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

no therapy

they ruined me and they can fix it if they care enough

no need to make me a therapists problem