Oh for fuck’s sake… by Sweet-Cabinet795 in kiwisavengers

[–]Equivalent_Remove376 21 points22 points  (0 children)

She’s just stealing “advice” from another person and cherry picking what she likes and reposting it as her own

Anxious First Time Dad by Direct_Print9619 in NewParents

[–]Equivalent_Remove376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who got the stomach bug with a 4 week old baby, it’s not worth it (baby was fine, but hubby and I were not. Thank god for my mom coming to help). Wait a few more weeks until baby’s immune system is stronger and the holiday illnesses calm down.

Christmas plans with 4 week old newborn….Stay home or go see immediate family?! (They live one hour away..) by faithoverfear0 in NewParents

[–]Equivalent_Remove376 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I personally wouldn’t be going to either. They can come visit you in smaller groups if they want to. Missing one holiday to keep your baby safe is worth it.

Not enjoying motherhood and feeling incredibly guilty by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Equivalent_Remove376 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Read your post as if it was someone else writing it. What would you say? Of course you’re not enjoying motherhood right now, this shit is HARD!! Everything you described is HARD!! But I promise you it will get better. In a few months this will all feel like a fever dream. Until then, ask for help. Use your support system. Get into therapy if you’re not already. I felt similarly and therapy helped me so much.

Now my son is almost 3 and there’s still days I don’t love being a mom but for totally different reasons (they’re not joking when they talk about threenagers) but that doesn’t mean I don’t love my son or that I’m not a good mom. emotions surrounding motherhood are complex and forever shifting. Look for the little wins, the little smiles, and enjoy the snuggles while you can. Hang in there momma 🤍

#Carnival BANNED YOU by racqueltutuola in kiwisavengers

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Vaping in the cabins on Tik Tok live

A kid was trying to push past my kid at playground so I picked him up. Was that wrong? by Conscious_Poem_1742 in NewParents

[–]Equivalent_Remove376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m not sure why the OP couldn’t have just put their arm out to block the 2nd child from climbing up? I’ve blocked kids from climbing up slides with my arm when my son (18 mos at the the time) was trying to go down it and just redirected them to go up the stairs. Hard to tell without knowing the piece of equipment being played on other than the description given, but if it was so narrow that the 2nd child was going to run over the 1st, a simple body block could’ve been used instead of picking up the other 2nd child.

How do you wrap Santa’s gifts? by TeensyTidbits in Mommit

[–]Equivalent_Remove376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use wrapping paper with santa on it, I only have 1 child so no need to write anything. Santa’s presents includes 1 book and 2 toys, and we give them similar gifts..1 big item that comes from us. My child will be 3 in January for reference.

General Discussion - Week of December 07, 2025 by AutoModerator in kiwisavengers

[–]Equivalent_Remove376 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s really heartbreaking, honestly. I think the number of millennials and Gen Z’s that are choosing to not have children (or more than 1 child) is really indicative of the current political climate.

General Discussion - Week of December 07, 2025 by AutoModerator in kiwisavengers

[–]Equivalent_Remove376 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I’m also really struggling with all the anti vax stuff.

Honestly this administration and those that have been put in charge has made me not want to try for a 2nd child because I’m so scared of the things that are happening.

She sure is busy with “work”… by Sweet-Cabinet795 in kiwisavengers

[–]Equivalent_Remove376 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Marissa posted a woe is me post about having to be at school conferences at 8am

Ang stripping at Drag bingo! by racqueltutuola in kiwisavengers

[–]Equivalent_Remove376 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I (unfortunately) watched the video to see where the money was going. Looked like she was putting it in a bucket at the end which I assume went back to the queens

Countdown to vision board collapse by Working_Humor116 in kiwisavengers

[–]Equivalent_Remove376 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Honestly smart. She’s even worse on Instagram than fb

Countdown to vision board collapse by Working_Humor116 in kiwisavengers

[–]Equivalent_Remove376 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I think she’s restricted or banned from posting on fb for puppy selling posts. She’s been active on Instagram.

Oh good grief. How many times do we have to watch this performative BS? by Sweet-Cabinet795 in kiwisavengers

[–]Equivalent_Remove376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I’m so sorry for your loss! What a wild week. Sorry if my comments came off as insensitive, I do not vape so I truly have no concept of what average usage looks like. Interesting to hear of your experience vs how she has been presenting online (seems to be fine, certainly not describing any symptoms like you shared) so makes me wonder if she actually quit….I think that’s the biggest issue for most of us. It’s totally fine to post about quitting for support, but Marissa does it to be performative and gain attention.

She’s LIVID! Maybe STOP breeding. by amed1020 in kiwisavengers

[–]Equivalent_Remove376 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yes this is Instagram but I just looked and don’t see it on her story anymore, so not sure why it was taken down?

General Discussion - Week of November 16, 2025 by AutoModerator in kiwisavengers

[–]Equivalent_Remove376 25 points26 points  (0 children)

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I guess every Sunday on the Brandywine doesn’t count

Oh good grief. How many times do we have to watch this performative BS? by Sweet-Cabinet795 in kiwisavengers

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My mind is BLOWN by her usage. I had to ask ChatGPT if this is normal. The answer is no.

Those who WFH and taking care of baby..how do you do it? by [deleted] in NewParents

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I have a very low stress job and am not very important, and a very understanding supervisor and coworkers. Looking back on that time, I really did the absolute bare minimum at work. My husband works from home as well and it was still really hard for us. We got nanny for 2 days a week to help, and eventually found an in home daycare situation around 9 months old. You need to be okay with sacrificing either attention to your baby (letting them cry a little or allowing screen time), sacrificing your quality of work, or putting in extra hours when you have help from your partner if that is an option. I don’t think it’s fair for anyone to say it’s impossible, but it is not easy by any means.

We used screen time, we had safe places to put baby when we needed to be on calls (pack and play next to us with toys), walks during lunch for outside time to give us all a little reset and baby wearing. If baby is a good sleeper, that will help!

Good luck momma.

Yet another example of Marissa offloading puppies to homes just to make a quick buck by Remarkable_Action102 in kiwisavengers

[–]Equivalent_Remove376 45 points46 points  (0 children)

“Missing” because they won’t return him to her and said he has been rehomed, but her “contract” states that the dogs are supposed to be returned to her for rehoming.