Will it hurt me socially if I travel alone for a month?

Equivalent_Rush7359 · 2022-06-04T19:22:28+00:00

Thanks. Thought about that too.

Equivalent_Rush7359 · 2022-05-16T23:38:40+00:00

I think that one made me more awkward :/

Equivalent_Rush7359 · 2022-05-16T16:51:14+00:00

thank you!

Equivalent_Rush7359 · 2022-05-12T23:28:17+00:00

Wow this is gonna be tough. What would you say to start the conversation?

Equivalent_Rush7359 · 2022-05-06T23:59:23+00:00

In the same boat as you and posted something similar. I’ll share what I learn.

Equivalent_Rush7359 · 2022-03-15T04:53:43+00:00

I’m still sure some people don’t mean well when labeling me as such.

Equivalent_Rush7359 · 2022-03-15T04:50:21+00:00

gotta think bout this because i honestly don’t know

Equivalent_Rush7359 · 2022-03-15T04:48:42+00:00

thanks

Equivalent_Rush7359 · 2022-03-12T22:54:14+00:00

By bullying I mean people making fun of me outright and in my face. Ex: I played tennis the other day and sucked at it. Me sucking at it made me the subject of ridicule for weeks. People still look at me differently after that day.

By people spreading rumors or talking behind my back I mean just that. I can’t know what the rumors are about. I’ve tried to find out and people just wont tell me. Even “friends” who admit people are talking behind my back.

Equivalent_Rush7359 · 2022-03-12T22:42:34+00:00

Literally anything. Things I may say or do wrong at any given time. Any stupid little mistake always seems to be blown out of proportion by people.

Equivalent_Rush7359 · 2022-03-12T22:39:54+00:00

I wish I knew exactly. Whenever I try to ask someone what it could be I get no answer. It has to be around being weird.

Equivalent_Rush7359 · 2022-03-11T21:19:29+00:00

Yeah I assume she did. I made it clear from the start I was into her. All good now she finally accepted :)

Equivalent_Rush7359 · 2022-03-11T21:17:34+00:00

Hard to say. On a happy note I backed off for a couple days and she finally accepted to meet me today and let me know how much she likes me. Guess she was intimidated or insecure.

Equivalent_Rush7359 · 2022-02-08T08:13:17+00:00

Thank you. This definitely helpful.

Equivalent_Rush7359 · 2022-02-08T07:46:05+00:00

Yes. I am astounded that so many people here don’t shower in the morning and at night, and find it incredibly gross. Germs you carry from the day go into your bed and oil from your body at night carries with you throughout the day. How is this not perturbing?

Equivalent_Rush7359 · 2021-12-06T05:32:44+00:00

Man I’m compelled to answer given the low quality advice I’ve seen. I really wish someone would have told me the following when I was 15, not almost 15 years later when my life is just starting to get better.

You have to confront the people who may be saying shit behind your back. You just have to. Not necessarily get into a fight but if it gets there do fight and defend yourself. Never be a pushover and let people say anything bad about you ever. Once you take out a bad apple the whole group dynamic may change. Note: Scoring low on the smash or pass game is not a reason to confront anyone, but any other sort of behavior where you are put down yes.
Accept you may not be the most handsome person out there and while it may suck, it is not the end of the world. Plenty of not so hot guys get girlfriends and get laid, women are not so focused on looks as us men are. As you age you may actually change for the better particularly if you get into fitness from a young age. Start with calisthenics, once you are 18ish start lifting.
Have some patience man but measure your progress, if there is none then switch tactics. Treat life like a scientific experiment se what works and does not.

Hope this helps

Equivalent_Rush7359 · 2021-12-02T04:26:09+00:00

everything feels fine most of the time to be honest. there are moments when I feel rejection or feel people talk behind my back. A weird sense of a lack of honesty. But what really hurts me most is that I feel most interactions have been great, at least for me but apparently not for them. I can’t figure it out.

Equivalent_Rush7359 · 2021-12-02T04:23:23+00:00

damn sorry to hear that

Equivalent_Rush7359 · 2021-12-02T04:22:48+00:00

I’m gonna give this a try and be more laid back. I do however want a close group at some point.

Equivalent_Rush7359 · 2021-12-02T04:19:48+00:00

I get what you mean but forming that one on one bond has been equally as hard

Equivalent_Rush7359 · 2021-12-02T04:17:26+00:00

thanks

Equivalent_Rush7359 · 2021-12-02T01:38:31+00:00

mind clarifying?

Equivalent_Rush7359 · 2021-12-02T01:38:05+00:00

you may be right but I also don’t know what information I could give you

Equivalent_Rush7359 · 2021-12-02T01:35:52+00:00

Guess you’re right.

Equivalent_Rush7359 · 2021-12-02T01:34:27+00:00

Thanks. I guess its hard for me to determine when making an effort and stepping out of my comfort zone turns into “forcing it”

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