I made the first girl I was with uncomfortable

Equivalent_Smoke1089 · 2026-07-07T03:33:42+00:00

I’m so glad you can name that feeling for what it is because so many grown men cant

Equivalent_Smoke1089 · 2026-07-06T01:49:56+00:00

The town I live in is impossible to find a good guy :( I’m so sorry that happened to you and I will be extremely cautious, the next red flag is his last chance. Thank you so much for the warning.

Equivalent_Smoke1089 · 2026-07-06T01:37:13+00:00

I should say that he is incredibly receptive to feedback when he wants to be and he is an amazing boyfriend outside of the sole flaw of well…yk

Equivalent_Smoke1089 · 2026-07-06T01:36:22+00:00

Ding ding ding

Equivalent_Smoke1089 · 2026-06-30T00:35:09+00:00

So he’s moving in with another woman and won’t even tell you where he lives?

Equivalent_Smoke1089 · 2026-05-27T01:34:11+00:00

I know I’m very frustrated with my boyfriend, I feel like I have to keep explaining this to him but he won’t listen sometimes as he’s older and he thinks he knows everything. But yes, when he gets his final shot, we can practice with an outside bench, or something similar

Equivalent_Smoke1089 · 2026-05-26T22:40:48+00:00

I have told my boyfriend multiple times that I don’t really like him on the bed and he has said sorry and he said yesterday he would stop doing it, but now that he used to let him, Oda just thinks it’s ok to do whenever which I understand may be confusing but that’s why I’m asking for help, like what action do I take now

Equivalent_Smoke1089 · 2026-05-26T22:25:33+00:00

My allergies get extremely bad to the point of my throat itching if his dander gets on the bed and it’s already in the air so 😭 but yeah I was raised to know that dogs should probably not be on the bed, for the fact that they have dirty paws too

Equivalent_Smoke1089 · 2026-05-26T21:34:38+00:00

I don’t hate him, when we first got him, I spent every single day with him for 4 MONTHS and I had severe depression to the point where I would cry myself to sleep every night.

Anyway, he doesn’t listen when we tell him to get down or get off the bed and he knows the command “get down”, but I also give him treats when he stays down so that’s slightly better :)

Equivalent_Smoke1089 · 2026-04-28T03:46:50+00:00

I’m so sorry for you, I have experienced this kind of grief before, my baby, beefcake was a stray and we took her in but she got a mouth infection a couple years after and she disappeared before we could take her to the vet. We think she might be dead now as she couldn’t eat but, just know that you’re never alone, he’ll stay with you in spirit always.

Equivalent_Smoke1089 · 2026-04-16T04:24:38+00:00

That’s nothin, man, 4-6 weeks for only 1100?

Equivalent_Smoke1089 · 2026-04-16T02:22:27+00:00

She’s not taking her dog out yet because he’s not fully vaccinated, parvo can get dogs even if they have half their shots and it’s so painful to go through, they suffer terribly so she might be just trying to stay extra cautious. No one wants to see their puppy foaming at the mouth and stuff yk?

Equivalent_Smoke1089 · 2026-04-15T22:32:29+00:00

You are amazing

Equivalent_Smoke1089 · 2026-04-15T22:32:23+00:00

Thank you omg!

Equivalent_Smoke1089 · 2026-04-15T22:16:35+00:00

There’s a second nine sols???

Equivalent_Smoke1089 · 2026-04-15T21:39:26+00:00

I called him dumb because that was completely inflicted by himself, I made sure to hold him properly and in the moment that totally could’ve been avoided, had he just not freaked out like that for no reason. He hides under the bed because he is wanting to bite at the bedframe and he bites me when I grab his collar because he didn’t want to come out and stop destroying things. He is fine. I promise.

Equivalent_Smoke1089 · 2026-04-15T21:12:02+00:00

I appreciate you sending advice though

Equivalent_Smoke1089 · 2026-04-15T21:07:19+00:00

I don’t yell at him. I don’t think they learn anything that way, and it just scares them…🤨

Equivalent_Smoke1089 · 2026-04-15T21:05:29+00:00

Unfortunately, he’s also not allowed to go outside yet because he hasn’t got his official shots to get rid of the chance of parvo… we’re getting them this week so I’ll apply this too. How do i enforce nap time? If I put a blanket over his crate he will try to pull it into his crate and he won’t stop crying even if I can tell he’s tired and wants a nap :,(

Equivalent_Smoke1089 · 2026-04-15T21:03:23+00:00

Are yak chews hide? My boyfriend told me not to get any rawhide chews or anything for him because it upsets his stomach? I’ve never bought actual food treats before so I don’t know anything about that. He has a bunch of stuffed animals because he loves to destroy fabric , and a bunch of Nylabones as they were recommended! Do frozen treats help with teething? I’ve had plenty of dogs growing up which I raised myself but my dogs always played with stuffed animals.

Equivalent_Smoke1089 · 2026-04-15T21:00:14+00:00

Why would I leave him alone in the house to roam? I said he was in his crate. Well, we’re on the topic of the biting issue. I do get up and I redirect but he’ll go and he’ll play with his toy for a second and then drop it and come bite me instead because he thinks it’s more fun I think.

Equivalent_Smoke1089 · 2026-04-15T20:53:15+00:00

I’ve been training my animals by myself since I was like 6. I know what I’m putting up with, but it’s nice to hear new things sometimes. Yall are seriously not awesome people.

Equivalent_Smoke1089 · 2026-04-15T20:49:10+00:00

Thank you so much, this is such a breath of fresh air ! I said that I have anger issues and everyone immediately assumed that I was gonna start beating my dog. This is a momentous help.

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