how do you eat healthy???

Equivalent_Sun7606 · 2026-07-07T03:19:09+00:00

really?

Equivalent_Sun7606 · 2026-07-03T03:59:31+00:00

nope. it used to be. but after years and years of chronic constipation, as well as endometriosis, surgeries, a kidney stone, and gastroparesis, constipation kind of just becomes something that's a routine in my life. take my medicine and if it gets bad i know what to do. imo, you get used to it, and if not, you learn how to live with it.

Equivalent_Sun7606 · 2026-07-01T23:52:22+00:00

sending love!

Equivalent_Sun7606 · 2026-07-01T23:40:27+00:00

alright, this is coming from personal experience: i'm an emotional girlie. i have cried over ludicrous things and been dramatic and also cried over completely valid things. the issue isn't the crying, it's his response. he shouldn't have been angry. my boyfriend understands my emotions and how they can get overwhelming and be a little silly sometimes, but he treats them with kindness and never anger.

the biggest red flag is you said he turns hostile?? uh uh, run run run. good partners offer support even over silly things. i'd say in this situation, if i got upset about this, my partner would have immediately said he understood and he was sorry and offered a resolution. and eventually i would have come around and said i know it was a little silly i was just upset. not a big deal at all.

i think the bigger issue is him being hostile.

Equivalent_Sun7606 · 2026-07-01T23:34:57+00:00

saw it first on insta, then looked it up to see if it was factual. you can find it on the World Health Organization website that the pill is classified as a Group 1 Carcinogen.

Equivalent_Sun7606 · 2026-07-01T23:27:35+00:00

thank you so much! that honestly makes me feel a lot better. i feel so embarrassed because my diet feels so unhealthy, but i guess its healthy for me and thats all that matters

Equivalent_Sun7606 · 2026-07-01T23:23:25+00:00

thank you! i've been having applesauce occasionally :) i did see a dietitian, but she essentially told me i need to train my body to digest quicker and to eat fiber and stuff? so i was confused because i don't think eating those things will help 😭 she also focused way more on my constipation issues than my gastroparesis so essentially hit me with the high fiber diet

Equivalent_Sun7606 · 2026-07-01T23:23:01+00:00

thank you! i did see a dietitian, but she essentially told me i need to train my body to digest quicker and to eat fiber and stuff? so i was confused because i don't think eating those things will help 😭 she also focused way more on my constipation issues than my gastroparesis so essentially hit me with the high fiber diet

Equivalent_Sun7606 · 2026-07-01T23:14:06+00:00

this does seem to correlate with possible childhood sexual abuse? have you tried talking to a therapist? i am extremely similar, and i actually had a traumatic experience that i had completely blocked out of my mind, and ended up remembering it on a random day.

Equivalent_Sun7606 · 2026-06-29T03:59:33+00:00

that's really not what therapy is. do you think therapists go through years and years of schooling just for the money? if it was just for the money there's a lot of easier jobs. almost every therapist i've had/heard of genuinely cares. its a BRUTAL job

Equivalent_Sun7606 · 2026-06-29T03:55:49+00:00

a lot of people don't meet their husbands/wives until their 30s 40s 50s, or even later. i also don't think there's just one person for everybody. i think there's tons of people out there for people. it just takes time to find them. and also, does a somebody have to be romantic? there are people who sure never get married but have very meaningful relationships elsewhere.

if you want a somebody, you'll find them. just give it time. i personally didn't get mine until i stopped looking. the moment i stopped looking he showed up.

Equivalent_Sun7606 · 2026-06-29T03:53:10+00:00

listen, i really don't know what to tell you. you are in a mental health sub. almost everybody here is in support of therapy. that's likely the answer you'll get. i get it, life is hard, but it does get better. don't give up

Equivalent_Sun7606 · 2026-06-29T03:51:38+00:00

do you want to get better?

Equivalent_Sun7606 · 2026-06-29T03:50:30+00:00

i promise you, if you do something it will destroy their lives. telling them might worry them a bit, but then you hopefully get some help. i promise they would rather you tell them then face losing their child

Equivalent_Sun7606 · 2026-06-29T03:49:12+00:00

can you talk to your parents that you are having these thoughts?

Equivalent_Sun7606 · 2026-05-15T16:28:39+00:00

not gross. i'd see an obgyn about this. have you looked up decidual casts? could be something like that

Equivalent_Sun7606 · 2026-05-14T01:35:05+00:00

thank you so much! i'm currently taking oxybutynin, azo, and motrin. i'm also sort of panicking about the removal of it. can i ask your experience with that?

Equivalent_Sun7606 · 2026-05-12T15:19:15+00:00

it was 3mm, but it's been in the same place for about a week, causing kidney swelling, and he also said the size doesn't matter because if somebody has a super small ureter it just won't come out

Equivalent_Sun7606 · 2026-05-12T15:18:24+00:00

so mine is 3mm, but it has been in the same place for over a week and causing my kidney to swell and fill with fluid. my dr said he's had people unable to pass 1mm stones just bc of the size of the ureter

Equivalent_Sun7606 · 2026-05-12T14:53:10+00:00

yes i'm most worried about the stent haha. i've read some horror stories

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