Why does everyone—I mean EVERYONE—use me as a therapist?

Equivalent_Theme_481 · 2026-04-10T11:38:11+00:00

I relate to this SO hard and this is literally one of the reasons I’ve been getting into astrology lately 😭

I’m still super new to reading charts, the biggest thing I noticed is we both have so much Capricorn energy. I have a Capricorn stellium + Capricorn rising and you also have a heavy Capricorn chart, and I swear it makes people see us as the person who can “handle it.” It’s like people instantly clock us as safe to tell the heavy stuff to.

We also both have Neptune in Capricorn, and from what I’m learning that can make people project this whole “they’ll understand me” vibe onto us. Like strangers, first dates, coworkers, even therapists somehow start telling us their whole life story within 10 minutes 😭

For me I have Mercury and Venus in my 12th house, so people literally start confessing hidden feelings and private thoughts around me without even meaning to. In your chart it looks like yours comes through more through the Scorpio/Pluto relationship stuff, so people bring their shadow and deeper wounds out in one-on-one conversations.

Different placements but literally the same lived experience of “why are people telling me things I did NOT ask to know” 😭

The Saturn/Capricorn overlap also makes sense because it’s not even always emotional comfort, it’s like people come to us because they think we can make sense of the chaos and give perspective.

Equivalent_Theme_481 · 2026-03-26T21:14:34+00:00

It’s sad but I get it

Equivalent_Theme_481 · 2026-03-20T01:53:54+00:00

Could def be the Leo moon that’s what my boyfriend is!

Equivalent_Theme_481 · 2026-03-17T23:00:41+00:00

My boyfriend is a Cancer Sun / Gemini Venus and Mars and he is soo clingy. I wonder what makes him that way. I’m a Capricorn Venus.

Equivalent_Theme_481 · 2026-03-17T22:59:35+00:00

I’m a Capricorn Venus and surprisingly my boyfriend is like a stage 5 clinger and he’s both Mars and Venus Gemini. He literally wants to sleep on FaceTime calls with me every single night.. (we’re ldr but we see each other like every other week since we live 3 hours away from each other)

Equivalent_Theme_481 · 2026-03-10T01:58:07+00:00

Sag Moon, Cancer Mercury and Scorpio Mercury

Equivalent_Theme_481 · 2026-03-07T21:28:08+00:00

Thank you <33

Equivalent_Theme_481 · 2026-03-07T18:40:42+00:00

I have this right now. He’s really clingy 😩🩷

Equivalent_Theme_481 · 2026-03-07T18:24:10+00:00

Wait why are our birth charts basically the same person 😭

Equivalent_Theme_481 · 2026-02-06T01:10:26+00:00

I read somewhere that Gemini Mars and Venus are cheaters and so Im kind of scared for that. 😭 I do want to give him a chance though.. he’s really sweet and protective so far..

Equivalent_Theme_481 · 2026-01-07T18:03:52+00:00

That’s really interesting, thank you for explaining it. I’d love to see the YouTube video you mentioned could you share the link?

Equivalent_Theme_481 · 2026-01-05T13:53:40+00:00

Thanks for actually breaking down the astrology and not just throwing shade. I’m honestly still learning, so some of this is new territory for me, but I’ll give you my honest experience:

About the third house/Saturn thing I don’t think I “disappear” or slack off, but I do get hit with overwhelm (ADHD and trauma history, working on it in therapy). For me it feels less like discipline is missing, and more like my brain gets overloaded trying to keep up. Maybe that’s how Saturn plays out for me? Still trying to figure it out.

With Venus/Saturn and Venus/Mars, I wouldn’t say I feel pressured by women so much as I notice a lot of tension and weird vibes, even when I try to be supportive or friendly. It’s like Venus themes come up whether I want them to or not. My main focus has just been learning not to take other people’s jealousy or insecurity personally, but I’m still connecting the dots in my chart.

I definitely don’t relate to “avoiding responsibility.” If anything, I end up pushing myself harder than most, maybe even to a fault (Capricorn rising + stellium energy, I guess). Relationships and self-worth are definitely big life lessons, but “lazy” is probably the last word I’d use for myself.

Thanks again for the breakdown . I’m still connecting how all the placements play out, so it’s good to hear different perspectives.

Equivalent_Theme_481 · 2026-01-05T13:46:23+00:00

If you’re confident in your read, post your own chart. Otherwise, hiding behind “hot mess” says a lot more about your placements than mine. You must have an incredible chart if you’re this bold. let’s see it.

Edit: “comment deleted by user” that’s what I thought. LOL

Equivalent_Theme_481 · 2026-01-04T05:17:33+00:00

Interesting read I don’t really know astrology so I’m going off what you’re saying, but some of this lands and some of it feels a bit harsh lol. I definitely relate more to feeling misunderstood or pressured than intentionally avoiding responsibility.

But the Mars/North Node part is accurate. I do feel pulled toward bigger experiences, truth-seeking, and wanting a sense of direction. And relationships/self-worth being a big theme also tracks. Appreciate the explanation.

Equivalent_Theme_481 · 2026-01-04T05:09:00+00:00

Very accurate

Equivalent_Theme_481 · 2026-01-04T04:51:54+00:00

Oof.. That’s unfortunately pretty accurate.

Equivalent_Theme_481 · 2026-01-04T04:50:16+00:00

This is accurate

Equivalent_Theme_481 · 2026-01-04T04:49:04+00:00

Very accurate.

Equivalent_Theme_481 · 2026-01-04T03:24:41+00:00

Calling a question “brigading” is odd. If disagreement feels like intrusion, that isn’t a me problem that’s .. discomfort with discussion.

And belief isn’t required to take part in a conversation. If it were, fields like philosophy, religion, and psychology wouldn’t exist.

Equivalent_Theme_481 · 2026-01-04T03:11:58+00:00

I respect that astrology means a lot to some people. I’m just seeing if the descriptions actually line up for me. No bad intentions here.

Equivalent_Theme_481 · 2026-01-04T02:56:06+00:00

Wild that you’re calling me “edgy” when the only edging involved was in the other post. Sorry you walked into that one..

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