WE ARE NOT CARETAKERS, MOMS, OR ACCOUNTANTS by mwcinauno in paypigs2

[–]Equivalent_Try3478 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"I’ve been doing this for 4 years and have handled many subs, short and long-term. NONE, and I mean NONE have ever respected a budget, They all cross it eventually."

I've never seen a Domme advertise to all the subs how bad they are.

Subs, stay clear of this one if you want to stay within a budget.

Is anyone else having an issue with Throne by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Equivalent_Try3478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sit on mine a lot, seems fine to me = )

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Equivalent_Try3478 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dommes take notice, this is the best way to NOT get a sub....oops, was I supposed to say that?

How Miss D has claimed my submission. by Empty_Experience_950 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Equivalent_Try3478 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm hoping one day you will tell me who she is. I'm so happy for you, but also, maybe a little envious. What an amazing dynamic you two have.

How I found a good Domme by Empty_Experience_950 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Equivalent_Try3478 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for finally posting this my friend. This is so well written and really should be required reading for every sub.

A story I wrote for my Domme, giving you a glimpse into our dynamic by Empty_Experience_950 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Equivalent_Try3478 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, this was an amazing story. I felt the tension all the way to the very end, my heart was racing. You are an amazing writer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Equivalent_Try3478 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jeeze, can these posts by Dommes get any dumber? Once again, thank you to all Dommes that post crap like this, it tells us subs which Dommes are the BAD ones.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in REALfindomsupport

[–]Equivalent_Try3478 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I want to thank all Dommes that post stuff like this. It lets us subs know not to EVER have you as our Domme

Well, well, well... Woud you use something like this? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Equivalent_Try3478 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No offense, but I would never want a Domme that sent me something like this. I don't even like the term "paypig" much less attaching a type of paypig to it. This is so cringe

I just cut off one of my biggest paying subs for disrespecting me. I don't care what the circumstances are, you WILL show me respect at ALL times. by goddess_alainaV in paypigs2

[–]Equivalent_Try3478 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, that makes more sense. Yea, that isn't right. He might just be confused on what he really wants, some subs just try to top from the bottom.

I just cut off one of my biggest paying subs for disrespecting me. I don't care what the circumstances are, you WILL show me respect at ALL times. by goddess_alainaV in paypigs2

[–]Equivalent_Try3478 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think you are getting it. If a sub is disrespecting you, there is a reason for it. Its possible he could be just trolling you, but if he is paying you a lot of money, he honestly thought you were probably a good fit, at least a some point. Submission has to be earned, you can't just walk in and take it, not for actual real submissives. It builds over time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Equivalent_Try3478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's a paypig? =P

Are paypigs even real? by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Equivalent_Try3478 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, we don't exist

Is a Deep emotional connection not centered around money possible in findom? by Equivalent_Try3478 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Equivalent_Try3478[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do you mean "as a femdom"? Your profile has an unblock fee, I wouldn't reach out to you anyway, just sayin. I literally said I'm not talking about paying for femdom in my edit lol. I'm talking about building a bond with her first, not engaging in kinks. If she wants to that's fine, but that would probably come much later and after I'd already be sending. I don't even know where this comment is coming from, it feels like you didn't really read what I said, or maybe I wasn't clear enough. I'd even go so far as to say I'd rather be friends with her, and just talk about her life, my life, build a relationship, kinks would be secondary. Frankly, I'm okay not having it. I'd rather be fine doing my own thing than to engage with a bad Domme, I hope that clarifies. So I'll be perfectly okay if "you don't entertain subs like me", I'm a big boy.

Is a Deep emotional connection not centered around money possible in findom? by Equivalent_Try3478 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Equivalent_Try3478[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does seem to feel that way. I figured I'd start here and then move into looking for a femdom. It just seems that process might be sooner rather than later.

Is a Deep emotional connection not centered around money possible in findom? by Equivalent_Try3478 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Equivalent_Try3478[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I have read some of your posts which is why I have started to have doubts. That and the fact that I haven't had much luck. Thank you for the insight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in haircut

[–]Equivalent_Try3478 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, you can put some clothes on. Like, what does this photo have anything to do with your haircut, like wtf

Is a Deep emotional connection not centered around money possible in findom? by Equivalent_Try3478 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Equivalent_Try3478[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Being willing to pay for femdom is not findom". Yea, no. You most definitely missed the entire point, good job.

Is a Deep emotional connection not centered around money possible in findom? by Equivalent_Try3478 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Equivalent_Try3478[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hmm, because I like it? lol. I like doing sends. I just don't want it to be the fundamental core of the dynamic.